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1195
Summary:
Understand how the Law of attraction DOES bring the true Mr./Ms. Right your way – because it will work!
Keywords:
law of attraction, vibration, attract, ideal partner, healthy relationship
Article Body:
Often I receive emails asking me how to use the Law of Attraction to attract a certain person--usually for romatic purposes. One woman, in her 40's, wrote to me this week and has given me permission to share some of our correspondence with you. Perhaps you (or someone you know) will recognize the feelings expressed here:
"Please can you help me understand how to bring back the love of my life. We only dated for a short time but I know he is the one. He has been hurt badly and didn't want to end things with me but felt he had to because he was frightened he would be hurt again. It was a very emotional ending for both of us.
I love him so much that I let him go and I respect him so I have stayed away to give him time and space. We have been apart for three months. In my heart I know that we are meant to be together but even though I was so sad and in despair I still felt loving and kindness towards him and my thoughts were always hopeful. And in my longing and praying several 'co-incidences' have happened.
Not long after we split up I started searching the web for anything that could give me advice about winning back the man I love and discovered the Law of Attraction. . .Can you help me?"
Sometimes a man will write to me in a similar vein: "I'm in love with this wonderful (or beautiful) woman. I know she is the one for me. Our paths have crossed often. How can I get her to notice me (or go out with me)?"
In part one of this two-part series, we'll look at why you are NOT in a relationship with the "love of your dreams." In part two we'll look at what to do when a seemingly "perfect partnership" falls apart. I hope that while reading both you will also understand how the Law of attraction DOES bring the true Mr./Ms. Right your way – because it will work!
Part one: "Why am I NOT in a relationship with the love of my life? What's happening here? Is the Law of Attraction at work?" Of course it is!
The Law of Attraction is always reflecting back to you your vibration. Remember:
You can know what you are vibrating by observing what IS
showing up in your life.
When you think you are in love with someone—and are sure they are "the one," but cannot seem to convince him or her or attract him or her, then they are NOT "the one". If they were, you would already be in a relationship with them--a natural, mutual, harmonious relationship that both of you equally gravitated toward.
Two scenarios are really at play here:
You are in love with the idea of this person being in love with you. That someone with these physical attributes, or character traits, or successes in life could want to be with you is an exhilarating idea.
What often happens is that you meet someone who has five (or ten) characteristics that you are looking for in your ideal partner and you assume that he or she is your "ideal mate." You think, "This is it! I've found 'the one' for me for the rest of my life." However, the attraction just doesn’t seem mutual and you do not understand why. Didn’t the Law of Attraction bring them to you? Well, the real question is are they looking for someone like you? Are you a vibrational match for this person?
Remember that the person you are looking at may only appear to have the qualities you desire. Underneath the exterior clothing of beauty and success, there may be person with entirely different goals, beliefs and core values than yours. Even if you are very similar, what is he or she looking for? The role of their ideal mate may be very different from one you would truly like to play.
The second scenario goes like this:
You are in love with the idea of being “allowed” to love this person Seeing their potential and their needs, you may also see how “helpful” you could be for them as a mate. Searching for love with this motive is especially dangerous because, sadly, more often than not there is simply an insecure, life-draining person there, hoping to find someone to give their life meaning and purpose. (Not a healthy thought.) Victims attract someone who can make them a victim again. The poor attract someone who can enable them to continue in their poverty. The Law of Attraction is not fooled, nor can it be manipulated through words and expressions of desires that are not in alignment with the truth.
But you see so many people around you happy and in love, why does it not come your way?
Here is how the Law of Attraction does work, and how you can make it work for you:
In order to attract the "ideal partner"-- someone who is in vibrational harmony with who you are--you must be what you seek.
Are you looking for someone who is kind? You must be kind. Do you want someone with good looks? You must care about how you look. Do you want someone who will make a commitment to you? Ask yourself, "Do I keep commitments?" Do you want someone who is successful? Ask your self, "Am I vibrating success?"
Remember, the Law of Attraction is bringing to you exactly what you are vibrating. If you want something different in your life, you must change yourself--your vibration. It's an inside job and you can only change yourself-- you can't change someone else's vibration.
I referred to the second scenario as especially dangerous for this reason exactly – you can’t change someone else, and while trying to do so you stop concentrating on yourself, stalling any change and growth that may need to occur in you.
You CAN attract your ideal partner. You CAN find joy in a healthy relationship. Just start with yourself:
KNOW yourself
ACCEPT yourself
HONOR yourself
TRUST yourself
LOVE yourself
When you do, the most perfect relationships happen in a perfectly natural way.
Why? Because your healthy relationship with yourself is reflected in your healthy relationship with that significant other.
Rebecca Hanson is a Master Law of Attraction Coach. Thousands of people have enjoyed her talks or articles about real-life experiences and how she found the "nugget of truth" in every situation. Now she has such a deep grasp of how faith, beliefs and thinking work that she is able to lift others to a higher level, very quickly. You can contact Rebecca at Rebecca@YouCanHaveItAll.com or on her website at http://www.youcanhaveitall.com and sign up for her free “Museletter”.
Rebecca has also written a book called, “Law of Attraction for Business: How to create a business or attract a job you LOVE!” To find out more about this book and other information check out http://www.lawofattractionresources.com/
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Monday, May 31, 2010
Now you can buy all your pet supplies online from Purepettags
Word Count:
470
Summary:
Get the bets products at one site altogether and that is Purepettags.
Keywords:
Pure Pet Tag, Dog id Tag, Animal Tag, Pet name Tags, Dog Tags, Animal Tags, Cat Tags, Dog Collars, Dog Leashes, Animal Leashes, Dog Carrier Bags, Dog and Cat Products, Stainless Steel Pet Tag, Silver
Article Body:
"It has often happened that in order to purchase supplies and food for our pets we have to travel physically to a pet store. This leads to consumption of precious fuel as well as time and effort. What if someone told you that you can now make your pet purchases from the comforts of your home? Sounds too good to be true? Then you should visit Purepettags.
Purepettags is a very suer friendly site and also the pet products are divided into various categories to make your search for a particular item easier. For example, you will see categories such as dog leashes, dog bones, dog id tags, dog collars and dog bowls. You can simply click on a category to see the products on display on the respective webpage. The product image is shown along with a brief description of the product. Hence you know exactly what you are buying. Also the site always has great discount offers on many products as a result of which you stand to save a lot of money.
So do visit Purepettags website today itself and make all your pet related purchases from the comforts of your home. Once you order the products and make payment, your order will be processed and it will take just a few days for the products to reach your house. The website is great for buying id tags also. Every pet dog should ideally carry an id tag so that even if it gets lost in a park or some part of the city, a person who finds it can give it back to the rightful owner. These pet id tags are either made of stainless steel, plastic or sterling silver. Though a little bit expensive, sterling silver tags really look very smart.
The tags come in different sizes, shapes and colors. So you can simply have a look around and choose the tag that you want for your dog. The site also has a feature where you can rate the products based on their quality. The customer's suggestions are seriously taken into consideration and acted upon.
You can find prices of all the products on the price list page. Also you can become a member of the site by filling a simple registration form. When you become a member you can avail of some special benefits in terms of discounts and freebie offers. Also once you fill in the registration form you don't have to provide information again and again when you return to make more purchases. You can also sign up for a newsletter at the site so that you can receive mails from the site straight in your inbox. Your information is stored in a central database so that future pet supply purchases become easier. Purepettags always believes in marketing high quality pet products."
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470
Summary:
Get the bets products at one site altogether and that is Purepettags.
Keywords:
Pure Pet Tag, Dog id Tag, Animal Tag, Pet name Tags, Dog Tags, Animal Tags, Cat Tags, Dog Collars, Dog Leashes, Animal Leashes, Dog Carrier Bags, Dog and Cat Products, Stainless Steel Pet Tag, Silver
Article Body:
"It has often happened that in order to purchase supplies and food for our pets we have to travel physically to a pet store. This leads to consumption of precious fuel as well as time and effort. What if someone told you that you can now make your pet purchases from the comforts of your home? Sounds too good to be true? Then you should visit Purepettags.
Purepettags is a very suer friendly site and also the pet products are divided into various categories to make your search for a particular item easier. For example, you will see categories such as dog leashes, dog bones, dog id tags, dog collars and dog bowls. You can simply click on a category to see the products on display on the respective webpage. The product image is shown along with a brief description of the product. Hence you know exactly what you are buying. Also the site always has great discount offers on many products as a result of which you stand to save a lot of money.
So do visit Purepettags website today itself and make all your pet related purchases from the comforts of your home. Once you order the products and make payment, your order will be processed and it will take just a few days for the products to reach your house. The website is great for buying id tags also. Every pet dog should ideally carry an id tag so that even if it gets lost in a park or some part of the city, a person who finds it can give it back to the rightful owner. These pet id tags are either made of stainless steel, plastic or sterling silver. Though a little bit expensive, sterling silver tags really look very smart.
The tags come in different sizes, shapes and colors. So you can simply have a look around and choose the tag that you want for your dog. The site also has a feature where you can rate the products based on their quality. The customer's suggestions are seriously taken into consideration and acted upon.
You can find prices of all the products on the price list page. Also you can become a member of the site by filling a simple registration form. When you become a member you can avail of some special benefits in terms of discounts and freebie offers. Also once you fill in the registration form you don't have to provide information again and again when you return to make more purchases. You can also sign up for a newsletter at the site so that you can receive mails from the site straight in your inbox. Your information is stored in a central database so that future pet supply purchases become easier. Purepettags always believes in marketing high quality pet products."
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Mini Law of Attraction T-Tool
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503
Summary:
The Law of Attraction T-ToolTM is the single most useful tool for gaining clarity.
Keywords:
law of attraction, t-tool, attract, vibration, power
Article Body:
If I could offer only one tool, one exercise to help you attract more of what you want, it would be the Law of Attraction T-ToolTM. Each week I receive emails from people who have attracted their ideal job, mate, home or experience through this simple tool. Thousands of people have learned the value of this exercise.
Do you have a desire that is not yet realized? Are you experiencing confusion around a given subject? Are you afraid you'll get something you don't want? If so, then here's how you can benefit from doing a Law of Attraction T-ToolTM:
1. Pick a subject that you want clarity about or want to feel better about. Be creative in your subject title. Instead of calling it "My Ideal Client" try something like: "Clients I have the most fun working with" or "This type of client knocks my sock off!"
2. Using a blank sheet of paper, draw a large letter "T" on the page. Label the left column, "I don't like..." and the right column, "I do like..."
3. Begin on the left side, by asking yourself: What don't I like in regard to this subject? Think of as may things as you can. Don't stop at two or three--aim for 20 items or more. This will remove low frequency vibrations that slow down or block you from receiving what you DO like.
4. Now, take each item and ask yourself, "If I don't like this, what DO I like?" And write your answer using the BEST words you can find.
The Mini T-ToolTM:
Recently, I was working with a student who is in the midst of a career change. One item in her "I don't like..." column was: "A crazy boss." I let her continue to tell me about other things she did not like or want in her new job, and then I asked her to explain what a "crazy boss" looks like--I was picturing someone wearing a white lab coat with wild hair sticking out in every direction and wide eyes popping out of their face. She said, "A 'crazy boss' is someone who doesn't let you do what he asks you to do. Someone who is looking over your shoulder every minute and micromanages your assignment."
I thought to myself, "This isn't what I pictured!" So we did a little T-ToolTM on what she didn't like and did like in a supervisor. When we finished, she said, "Whew! I knew I was going to attract a 'crazy boss' if I kept thinking about it, now I know what I DO want in a boss and I can keep my attention on THAT."
Take a look at your T-ToolTM. Is there something in either column that is too general or could be interpreted in different ways? If your terminology is confusing to someone else, the Law of Attraction will be confused too. Ask yourself, "Is this specific enough?" And see if you can do a Mini T-ToolTM. Doing several Minis will give you even MORE clarity.
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Summary:
The Law of Attraction T-ToolTM is the single most useful tool for gaining clarity.
Keywords:
law of attraction, t-tool, attract, vibration, power
Article Body:
If I could offer only one tool, one exercise to help you attract more of what you want, it would be the Law of Attraction T-ToolTM. Each week I receive emails from people who have attracted their ideal job, mate, home or experience through this simple tool. Thousands of people have learned the value of this exercise.
Do you have a desire that is not yet realized? Are you experiencing confusion around a given subject? Are you afraid you'll get something you don't want? If so, then here's how you can benefit from doing a Law of Attraction T-ToolTM:
1. Pick a subject that you want clarity about or want to feel better about. Be creative in your subject title. Instead of calling it "My Ideal Client" try something like: "Clients I have the most fun working with" or "This type of client knocks my sock off!"
2. Using a blank sheet of paper, draw a large letter "T" on the page. Label the left column, "I don't like..." and the right column, "I do like..."
3. Begin on the left side, by asking yourself: What don't I like in regard to this subject? Think of as may things as you can. Don't stop at two or three--aim for 20 items or more. This will remove low frequency vibrations that slow down or block you from receiving what you DO like.
4. Now, take each item and ask yourself, "If I don't like this, what DO I like?" And write your answer using the BEST words you can find.
The Mini T-ToolTM:
Recently, I was working with a student who is in the midst of a career change. One item in her "I don't like..." column was: "A crazy boss." I let her continue to tell me about other things she did not like or want in her new job, and then I asked her to explain what a "crazy boss" looks like--I was picturing someone wearing a white lab coat with wild hair sticking out in every direction and wide eyes popping out of their face. She said, "A 'crazy boss' is someone who doesn't let you do what he asks you to do. Someone who is looking over your shoulder every minute and micromanages your assignment."
I thought to myself, "This isn't what I pictured!" So we did a little T-ToolTM on what she didn't like and did like in a supervisor. When we finished, she said, "Whew! I knew I was going to attract a 'crazy boss' if I kept thinking about it, now I know what I DO want in a boss and I can keep my attention on THAT."
Take a look at your T-ToolTM. Is there something in either column that is too general or could be interpreted in different ways? If your terminology is confusing to someone else, the Law of Attraction will be confused too. Ask yourself, "Is this specific enough?" And see if you can do a Mini T-ToolTM. Doing several Minis will give you even MORE clarity.
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Sunday, May 30, 2010
Manifesting Your Desires
Word Count:
411
Summary:
I could make it very easy from the start and say that you are already manifesting your desires everyday, but you just don't realize it. Most people are unconscious creators.
Keywords:
Manifesting
Article Body:
I could make it very easy from the start and say that you are already manifesting your desires everyday, but you just don't realize it. Most people are unconscious creators. They go about their daily lives not knowing that the thoughts they are thinking have an impact on their outside world. The Law Of Attraction, probably the most important law governing creation states that all forms of matter and energy are attracted to that which is of like vibration. What this means is that the thoughts we hold in our minds begin to attract similar thoughts and become larger masses of thoughts we call thought forms.
So what are the implications of this for you? Stated simply, you get what you focus on. "But I'm always thinking about money and i never have any," you say. And that is because you never stay focused on the abundance in your life, but are always looking at the lack of what you do have. So that is what you attract into your life. If you could stay focused on one thing and imagined the excitement you would feel if you already had it, it would show up in your life in a relatively short time.
The world you see is only a mirror of all the thoughts you have inside of you. Change your thoughts and you change the perception of your world. Quantum physics teaches us that nothing exists independently of your perception of it. In actuality you get to choose what you see. That is why several people observing the same thing each have different opinions as to what really happened.
If you want to manifest your desires there are a few steps you need to follow. Number one in importance is knowing what you really want. The more definitive you can be, the easier it will be to reach your goal. Number two in importance is the more enthused, excited and emotionally charged you are about something, the faster you will see it show up in your life. Next, you have to allow it to come into your life. What i mean by this is not to expect it to come in a certain way, the when, where or how. Just let it flow into your life. And lastly, you should have a feeling of gratitude, or thankfulness in advance, to be grateful before and for the thing that you want.
Good luck in your manifesting and thanks for reading.
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411
Summary:
I could make it very easy from the start and say that you are already manifesting your desires everyday, but you just don't realize it. Most people are unconscious creators.
Keywords:
Manifesting
Article Body:
I could make it very easy from the start and say that you are already manifesting your desires everyday, but you just don't realize it. Most people are unconscious creators. They go about their daily lives not knowing that the thoughts they are thinking have an impact on their outside world. The Law Of Attraction, probably the most important law governing creation states that all forms of matter and energy are attracted to that which is of like vibration. What this means is that the thoughts we hold in our minds begin to attract similar thoughts and become larger masses of thoughts we call thought forms.
So what are the implications of this for you? Stated simply, you get what you focus on. "But I'm always thinking about money and i never have any," you say. And that is because you never stay focused on the abundance in your life, but are always looking at the lack of what you do have. So that is what you attract into your life. If you could stay focused on one thing and imagined the excitement you would feel if you already had it, it would show up in your life in a relatively short time.
The world you see is only a mirror of all the thoughts you have inside of you. Change your thoughts and you change the perception of your world. Quantum physics teaches us that nothing exists independently of your perception of it. In actuality you get to choose what you see. That is why several people observing the same thing each have different opinions as to what really happened.
If you want to manifest your desires there are a few steps you need to follow. Number one in importance is knowing what you really want. The more definitive you can be, the easier it will be to reach your goal. Number two in importance is the more enthused, excited and emotionally charged you are about something, the faster you will see it show up in your life. Next, you have to allow it to come into your life. What i mean by this is not to expect it to come in a certain way, the when, where or how. Just let it flow into your life. And lastly, you should have a feeling of gratitude, or thankfulness in advance, to be grateful before and for the thing that you want.
Good luck in your manifesting and thanks for reading.
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Manifesting Money is Deliciously Easy
Word Count:
290
Summary:
If you can learn to go deeper and be more trusting you can manifest money or anything you desire with greater ease. Learn to go into a deeper understand and you can move mountains.
Keywords:
Manifesting money, law of attraction, manifest, manifesting
Article Body:
Have you any doubt that manifesting money is easy? It actually is very easy to manifest what you want, but not in the way that you think. Repeating mindless affirmation and visualizing 5 minutes at a time won’t cut it.
One of the first things people do when they hear of the law of attraction is to jump into creating a business or playing the lottery with the hopes of manifesting money super fast.
This is the worst mistake. They work tirelessly getting their business up and running. When this does not work they run from one venture after another.
Of course this only gets the person frustrated. I hear people saying all the time, “I played the lottery and I got nothing, the law of attraction does not work.” The law of attraction does work. It is only that there are correct ways of applying the law of attraction and there are incorrect ways of applying the law of attraction.
Before you do anything to manifest more money, stop yourself. Yes, just stop. Do nothing. Before you can truly begin manifesting money you must align yourself with that money.
Alignment is an important first step. It shifts your energy from a place of lack into a place of now having. You can only have what you first become. The alignment of each thing you want to manifest takes its on time but there are many advanced, yet easy techniques that can get you there extremely fast.
When you rush to take action you are hopping to create new circumstances with the same state of being where you presently are. That’s why most people fail in the process of manifesting money or the things they truly desire to manifest.
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290
Summary:
If you can learn to go deeper and be more trusting you can manifest money or anything you desire with greater ease. Learn to go into a deeper understand and you can move mountains.
Keywords:
Manifesting money, law of attraction, manifest, manifesting
Article Body:
Have you any doubt that manifesting money is easy? It actually is very easy to manifest what you want, but not in the way that you think. Repeating mindless affirmation and visualizing 5 minutes at a time won’t cut it.
One of the first things people do when they hear of the law of attraction is to jump into creating a business or playing the lottery with the hopes of manifesting money super fast.
This is the worst mistake. They work tirelessly getting their business up and running. When this does not work they run from one venture after another.
Of course this only gets the person frustrated. I hear people saying all the time, “I played the lottery and I got nothing, the law of attraction does not work.” The law of attraction does work. It is only that there are correct ways of applying the law of attraction and there are incorrect ways of applying the law of attraction.
Before you do anything to manifest more money, stop yourself. Yes, just stop. Do nothing. Before you can truly begin manifesting money you must align yourself with that money.
Alignment is an important first step. It shifts your energy from a place of lack into a place of now having. You can only have what you first become. The alignment of each thing you want to manifest takes its on time but there are many advanced, yet easy techniques that can get you there extremely fast.
When you rush to take action you are hopping to create new circumstances with the same state of being where you presently are. That’s why most people fail in the process of manifesting money or the things they truly desire to manifest.
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I am Charmed, and You?
Word Count:
925
Summary:
Make you life brighter, healthier and more prosperious through authenticity and charm. Possessing charm will greatly augment your overall effectiveness and you will feel grand as those worry lines give way to your infectious smile. By projecting charm you say to others that you are both likeable and approachable.
Keywords:
charm, authenticity, personality
Article Body:
Possessing a charming way will open many doors. The latent charm lurking within you is your secret and hidden away gold mine. Your charm is like a pearl inside the oyster, and once it is discovered and polished can highlight and greatly enrich your personality and success.
Charm is that intangible quality within you, that when uncovered and freed from suffocating baggage, can add a subtle power to your presence that is irresistibly pleasing. The influence of this charm will attract, calm, assuage, placate and delight anyone with whom you come into contact. The ability to win over and influence people is in direct proportion to the charm you are able to summon up and demonstrate.
Charm can be developed like every other quality or attribute of the mind by adopting and practicing some basic rules. Adaptation, the art of agreeing with another person for the sake of amicability is lesson one. Finding common ground through genuine curiosity lowers defenses and paves the way for further exploration. Adaptation is an acknowledgment of another’s ‘right to be’ right or wrong. As Voltaire said, "I do not agree with a word you say but I shall defend to the death your right to say it." The goal is to charm not to reform.
The primary rule is for you to be yourself. Any kind of physical makeover, including that phoney smile, won’t do the trick. Affectations and pretense, even a well rehearsed choreography, is swift and certain death to charm. It is easy enough to attract and get attention by artifice, but to influence anyone beyond surface pleasantries, you must possess the power of charm within. A smile may win a first look, but it takes the conscious power of charm to obtain results. Authenticity is genuine and indisputable, easily picked up by others as the real thing, where pretense is usually unmasked.
By practicing the techniques of charm from within, you can put your prospect or antagonist at ease and even inspire them to do your bidding. Projecting charm requires give and take. The first technique is to listen. You must be an attentive listener interested in hearing what the other person has to say, which also means paying close attention and really comprehending what they have to say and where they are coming from in saying it.
The second fundamental is to always be humble, gentle and polite. By adopting these traits you will project a gracious and friendly manner which communicates the attitude that you are both likeable and approachable. Treat all people that you meet as potential friends. By displaying an open and positive attitude, and making others feel that your own life was incomplete before having met them, empowers them, and in turn they will become endeared to you. Interest, kindness, and humbleness are a major part of being charming. Giving praise is another.
Praise is like a rare gemstone which derives its worth from its scarcity. Praise is one of the greatest motivating forces there is, and when sincerely applied can work wonders. Praise a dog and he is your friend. Praise children and they will glow with joy. Praise your ability with gratitude and you increase the flow of intelligence into your endeavors. Positive praise feelingly applied is an active multiplier. Praise what you have and more will be available to you. Praise is a positive expression of appreciation. In the case of others, it gives hearty and warm approval and breaks down barriers. If anyone you meet deserves your approbation, by all means give it, and in so doing you enhance their appreciation of your own qualities, a win win situation powered by charm.
The third element of charm is tolerance. Life is a compromise, and to realize and accept this adds to ones peace of mind and enjoyment. People are entitled to their own opinion, and possessing tolerance allows respect for diverse opinions, without necessarily believing or sharing them. Respect for another’s point of view will always enlarge your own world view. By exercising tolerance you dispel prejudice and vanity. It is the essential quality necessary to establish the true relationship between divergent situations on an impersonal basis. By becoming tolerant you learn not to take the world and the events and people in it too seriously, yourself included, thus enabling your sense of humor to expand. A true and easy smile and the ability to have a good laugh will relax you, and in so doing, aid you in peace of mind and efficiency. Tolerance and a good sense of humor are indeed additional gems to have in your crown of charm.
Charm is the art of pleasing. You need to be poised along with possessing the ability to act natural. Your ability to be pleasingly spontaneous and to act natural is a reflection of your habits. If these habits have been formed through the proper training of grace, poise and cleanliness, then they add to your charm. Negative habits of sloth, crudeness and loutishness diminishes. Charm refines the essence of your personality and permits the radiant beauty of your real being to shine through. Possessing charm will greatly augment your effectiveness. It makes it possible for you to always present yourself in the most favorable light. Through the glow of charm you will feel healthier and those worry lines will soon be replaced by your infectious smile. So train and equip yourself in the art and power of charm. It will enrich your presence and add immeasurably to your personal satisfaction and happiness.
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Summary:
Make you life brighter, healthier and more prosperious through authenticity and charm. Possessing charm will greatly augment your overall effectiveness and you will feel grand as those worry lines give way to your infectious smile. By projecting charm you say to others that you are both likeable and approachable.
Keywords:
charm, authenticity, personality
Article Body:
Possessing a charming way will open many doors. The latent charm lurking within you is your secret and hidden away gold mine. Your charm is like a pearl inside the oyster, and once it is discovered and polished can highlight and greatly enrich your personality and success.
Charm is that intangible quality within you, that when uncovered and freed from suffocating baggage, can add a subtle power to your presence that is irresistibly pleasing. The influence of this charm will attract, calm, assuage, placate and delight anyone with whom you come into contact. The ability to win over and influence people is in direct proportion to the charm you are able to summon up and demonstrate.
Charm can be developed like every other quality or attribute of the mind by adopting and practicing some basic rules. Adaptation, the art of agreeing with another person for the sake of amicability is lesson one. Finding common ground through genuine curiosity lowers defenses and paves the way for further exploration. Adaptation is an acknowledgment of another’s ‘right to be’ right or wrong. As Voltaire said, "I do not agree with a word you say but I shall defend to the death your right to say it." The goal is to charm not to reform.
The primary rule is for you to be yourself. Any kind of physical makeover, including that phoney smile, won’t do the trick. Affectations and pretense, even a well rehearsed choreography, is swift and certain death to charm. It is easy enough to attract and get attention by artifice, but to influence anyone beyond surface pleasantries, you must possess the power of charm within. A smile may win a first look, but it takes the conscious power of charm to obtain results. Authenticity is genuine and indisputable, easily picked up by others as the real thing, where pretense is usually unmasked.
By practicing the techniques of charm from within, you can put your prospect or antagonist at ease and even inspire them to do your bidding. Projecting charm requires give and take. The first technique is to listen. You must be an attentive listener interested in hearing what the other person has to say, which also means paying close attention and really comprehending what they have to say and where they are coming from in saying it.
The second fundamental is to always be humble, gentle and polite. By adopting these traits you will project a gracious and friendly manner which communicates the attitude that you are both likeable and approachable. Treat all people that you meet as potential friends. By displaying an open and positive attitude, and making others feel that your own life was incomplete before having met them, empowers them, and in turn they will become endeared to you. Interest, kindness, and humbleness are a major part of being charming. Giving praise is another.
Praise is like a rare gemstone which derives its worth from its scarcity. Praise is one of the greatest motivating forces there is, and when sincerely applied can work wonders. Praise a dog and he is your friend. Praise children and they will glow with joy. Praise your ability with gratitude and you increase the flow of intelligence into your endeavors. Positive praise feelingly applied is an active multiplier. Praise what you have and more will be available to you. Praise is a positive expression of appreciation. In the case of others, it gives hearty and warm approval and breaks down barriers. If anyone you meet deserves your approbation, by all means give it, and in so doing you enhance their appreciation of your own qualities, a win win situation powered by charm.
The third element of charm is tolerance. Life is a compromise, and to realize and accept this adds to ones peace of mind and enjoyment. People are entitled to their own opinion, and possessing tolerance allows respect for diverse opinions, without necessarily believing or sharing them. Respect for another’s point of view will always enlarge your own world view. By exercising tolerance you dispel prejudice and vanity. It is the essential quality necessary to establish the true relationship between divergent situations on an impersonal basis. By becoming tolerant you learn not to take the world and the events and people in it too seriously, yourself included, thus enabling your sense of humor to expand. A true and easy smile and the ability to have a good laugh will relax you, and in so doing, aid you in peace of mind and efficiency. Tolerance and a good sense of humor are indeed additional gems to have in your crown of charm.
Charm is the art of pleasing. You need to be poised along with possessing the ability to act natural. Your ability to be pleasingly spontaneous and to act natural is a reflection of your habits. If these habits have been formed through the proper training of grace, poise and cleanliness, then they add to your charm. Negative habits of sloth, crudeness and loutishness diminishes. Charm refines the essence of your personality and permits the radiant beauty of your real being to shine through. Possessing charm will greatly augment your effectiveness. It makes it possible for you to always present yourself in the most favorable light. Through the glow of charm you will feel healthier and those worry lines will soon be replaced by your infectious smile. So train and equip yourself in the art and power of charm. It will enrich your presence and add immeasurably to your personal satisfaction and happiness.
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Saturday, May 29, 2010
Internet pitfalls: dangers of online dating
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561
Summary:
The Internet is just another way for men and women to meet. On the Internet, you have to be prepared for the added risk of meeting someone who will do hurt to you. This does not mean that you should not take the risk. Of course you can—just keep your eyes as open as your heart.
Keywords:
internet,dating,online,
Article Body:
Watch out for lies and embellishments There are certain things which peoplecommonly lie about within their profile. The most common include: Height, weight, age, and occupation. Also be aware that people may embellish a little bit about themselves to make themselves sound better. For example, they may over exaggerate their travel experience, college education, etc… As mentioned before, even some pictures can’t be trusted. Some people use old photos of themselves because they looked better back then. Most important, be aware that some people lie about their relationship status. Married people have been known to state they are single on online dating sites.
Be careful about sharing your email As mentioned, most online dating sites allow you to use an anonymous internal communication system. Make sure you take full advantage of that. If you do start to feel comfortable with someone and would like to share an email address with them, don’t use your regular email address. Set up a free email address that you use strictly for your online dating activities. You can easily obtain one through yahoo, hotmail, gmail, etc…
Be careful about sharing your personal information It’s easy to get sweptup and excited about the possibility of a new romance. However, the anonymous nature of online dating sites makes it just as (if not) more important than ever to protect your personal information. Don’t share your full name. Never give out the details of exactly where you work, or go to school. You can say something like “I work at a major downtown law firm.” If they ask, “Which one?” Just politely tell them you’d rather not say until you get to know them a little better. Most people will understand and respect your decision to not share. Don’t ever give out your address. Be very careful about giving out your telephone number. This is especially true of your cell phone number.
Don’t get too serious too fast It’s best to just keep things on the lighter side for a little while when you first meet someone from an online dating site. Keeping things friendly and light will help you to get to know the other person a lot better than just diving into a relationship.
Using an online dating service will help you to find your ideal person for a relationship. By using it to its full potential you won’t have to just “settle” for someone.Unfortunately, there are some people of questionable character in this world. You’re just as likely to meet someone who is up to no good at the gym, bar/club, or even at work as you are at an online dating site. The only difference with online dating sites is the level of anonymity that is provided for users. It’s a dual edge sword. It helps protect the innocent and allows those of dubious character to get away with a little more. These pitfalls and dangers weren’t mentioned to scare you. Online dating sites provide safe, fun, and exciting ways to meet people. Just keep these tips in mind and use common sense. The majority of people on online dating sites are legitimately searching for someone they can connect with, have fun with, and maybe even fall in love with. Maybe that special person they’re waiting for is you!
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561
Summary:
The Internet is just another way for men and women to meet. On the Internet, you have to be prepared for the added risk of meeting someone who will do hurt to you. This does not mean that you should not take the risk. Of course you can—just keep your eyes as open as your heart.
Keywords:
internet,dating,online,
Article Body:
Watch out for lies and embellishments There are certain things which peoplecommonly lie about within their profile. The most common include: Height, weight, age, and occupation. Also be aware that people may embellish a little bit about themselves to make themselves sound better. For example, they may over exaggerate their travel experience, college education, etc… As mentioned before, even some pictures can’t be trusted. Some people use old photos of themselves because they looked better back then. Most important, be aware that some people lie about their relationship status. Married people have been known to state they are single on online dating sites.
Be careful about sharing your email As mentioned, most online dating sites allow you to use an anonymous internal communication system. Make sure you take full advantage of that. If you do start to feel comfortable with someone and would like to share an email address with them, don’t use your regular email address. Set up a free email address that you use strictly for your online dating activities. You can easily obtain one through yahoo, hotmail, gmail, etc…
Be careful about sharing your personal information It’s easy to get sweptup and excited about the possibility of a new romance. However, the anonymous nature of online dating sites makes it just as (if not) more important than ever to protect your personal information. Don’t share your full name. Never give out the details of exactly where you work, or go to school. You can say something like “I work at a major downtown law firm.” If they ask, “Which one?” Just politely tell them you’d rather not say until you get to know them a little better. Most people will understand and respect your decision to not share. Don’t ever give out your address. Be very careful about giving out your telephone number. This is especially true of your cell phone number.
Don’t get too serious too fast It’s best to just keep things on the lighter side for a little while when you first meet someone from an online dating site. Keeping things friendly and light will help you to get to know the other person a lot better than just diving into a relationship.
Using an online dating service will help you to find your ideal person for a relationship. By using it to its full potential you won’t have to just “settle” for someone.Unfortunately, there are some people of questionable character in this world. You’re just as likely to meet someone who is up to no good at the gym, bar/club, or even at work as you are at an online dating site. The only difference with online dating sites is the level of anonymity that is provided for users. It’s a dual edge sword. It helps protect the innocent and allows those of dubious character to get away with a little more. These pitfalls and dangers weren’t mentioned to scare you. Online dating sites provide safe, fun, and exciting ways to meet people. Just keep these tips in mind and use common sense. The majority of people on online dating sites are legitimately searching for someone they can connect with, have fun with, and maybe even fall in love with. Maybe that special person they’re waiting for is you!
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Instead Of Waiting, Give It Yourself
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934
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If you are like most people, then you too have this strange tendency to wait for others to fill in your needs. This pattern of “waiting for others” is a bad habit, causing a lot of pain and stress in your relationships. It can even be fatal and needlessly ruin a relationship!
Reason enough to take a closer look at this habit and learn how to handle it.
Keywords:
Giving, love, respect, desire, feel, attract, energy, vibration, enthusiasm, power, attention, friends, receive, relationship
Article Body:
If you are like most people, then you too have this strange tendency to wait for others to fill in your needs. This pattern of “waiting for others” is a bad habit, causing a lot of pain and stress in your relationships. It can even be fatal and needlessly ruin a relationship!
Reason enough to take a closer look at this habit and learn how to handle it.
At the start of a new relationship, you get everything you have been longing for, sometimes since early childhood: love, affection, tenderness, attention, excitement and energy.
You think you’ve finally found your Prince Charming (or Princess Charming) and all your needs are fulfilled forever, “They lived long and happily ever after.” You wallow in the illusion that this new excitement will last forever, and that you don’t have to do anything in order to keep receiving this stream of love and energy from your significant other.
Reality turns out differently. Not that after a while your lover loves you less, but that a big share of his attention and energy goes to his job, friends and activities he used to have before meeting you.
You panic. What’s going on? Does he not love you anymore? Did you become ugly, fat, or boring? You try to find a reason why the stream of energy coming from him is weakening. You were used to feel 300 Volt coming from him, and now you have to content yourself with a lousy 100.
You decide that you won’t let this happen and you demand he continues to give you what he gave in the beginning. You are focused on what you think you are entitled to receive, and on what the other “should” be giving you.
How strange! Why don’t you focus on what YOU can give to HIM? Why be so stubborn to maintain this bizarre belief that everything you need should be given to you by someone else? Why wait for the other to give to you what you need? Why not give it to yourself? And why not simply give to the other what YOU would like to receive for yourself?
You have nothing to lose by this approach. But I can assure you that you have a lot to gain: love, affection, tenderness, attention, excitement and energy. That’s right! Exactly the same things the other freely provided you with in the beginning!
YOU can give them to yourself, and to him. Giving is the only fail-safe way to make sure you receive.
Try to understand this. If you have to wait for somebody else to give you what you need, you can wait forever and there’s a decent risk you will never get it.
If you give what you need to yourself and to the other, then you have it both ways: once because you gave it to yourself, and once because you will get back from the other what you gave him. You can have your pie and eat it!
Why does it work this way? Because by giving something, you are tuning yourself to the frequency of that which you give. Let’s say, for example, you need attention. Instead of examining the behavior, facial and verbal expressions of your partner, trying to detect whether he gives you enough attention, you can give attention to him! Ask him how he is feeling right now, how his day went, what he learned today, and if he met any interesting people. Show your genuine interest, and I bet he will be interested in you too. You give attention, and you will get attention in return!
You want love? Give love! You want advice? Give advice! You need an energy boost? Boost up someone else’s energy level and in doing so you will feel your own energy rising! You want people to listen to you? Then first listen carefully to someone else who needs to be heard. You want more friends? Then befriend others! You want more respect from your children? Respect them!
So, in order to get what you want, learn to give it first.
Instead of waiting for your significant other to give you love, why don’t you give love to him or her?
Instead of waiting for your children to respect you, why don’t you start by respecting them? Be an example.
Instead of dreaming of a wonderful job that satisfies your needs, try to be wonderful at your current job first!
Instead of wanting your friends to invest time and energy in your relationship, why don’t you give some extra time and energy to them?
Instead of waiting for peace and calm to come into your life, why don’t you create the silence and inner balance needed to feel the peace you long for?
It’s all a matter of energy vibrating. By giving what you want to others, you are tuning in to the vibrational energy of what it is you want. If you want love and you give it to others, you are in the energy of love already. Giving love makes you feel that love and thus you then attract more love into your life. Giving attention makes you feel the attention. Giving respect puts you in the energy vibration of respect and you will attract more respect towards yourself.
This works for anything you desire. You will not only get what you want by giving it, but you will also be much less dependent on others. You will feel the power of being in charge of your own life!
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934
Summary:
If you are like most people, then you too have this strange tendency to wait for others to fill in your needs. This pattern of “waiting for others” is a bad habit, causing a lot of pain and stress in your relationships. It can even be fatal and needlessly ruin a relationship!
Reason enough to take a closer look at this habit and learn how to handle it.
Keywords:
Giving, love, respect, desire, feel, attract, energy, vibration, enthusiasm, power, attention, friends, receive, relationship
Article Body:
If you are like most people, then you too have this strange tendency to wait for others to fill in your needs. This pattern of “waiting for others” is a bad habit, causing a lot of pain and stress in your relationships. It can even be fatal and needlessly ruin a relationship!
Reason enough to take a closer look at this habit and learn how to handle it.
At the start of a new relationship, you get everything you have been longing for, sometimes since early childhood: love, affection, tenderness, attention, excitement and energy.
You think you’ve finally found your Prince Charming (or Princess Charming) and all your needs are fulfilled forever, “They lived long and happily ever after.” You wallow in the illusion that this new excitement will last forever, and that you don’t have to do anything in order to keep receiving this stream of love and energy from your significant other.
Reality turns out differently. Not that after a while your lover loves you less, but that a big share of his attention and energy goes to his job, friends and activities he used to have before meeting you.
You panic. What’s going on? Does he not love you anymore? Did you become ugly, fat, or boring? You try to find a reason why the stream of energy coming from him is weakening. You were used to feel 300 Volt coming from him, and now you have to content yourself with a lousy 100.
You decide that you won’t let this happen and you demand he continues to give you what he gave in the beginning. You are focused on what you think you are entitled to receive, and on what the other “should” be giving you.
How strange! Why don’t you focus on what YOU can give to HIM? Why be so stubborn to maintain this bizarre belief that everything you need should be given to you by someone else? Why wait for the other to give to you what you need? Why not give it to yourself? And why not simply give to the other what YOU would like to receive for yourself?
You have nothing to lose by this approach. But I can assure you that you have a lot to gain: love, affection, tenderness, attention, excitement and energy. That’s right! Exactly the same things the other freely provided you with in the beginning!
YOU can give them to yourself, and to him. Giving is the only fail-safe way to make sure you receive.
Try to understand this. If you have to wait for somebody else to give you what you need, you can wait forever and there’s a decent risk you will never get it.
If you give what you need to yourself and to the other, then you have it both ways: once because you gave it to yourself, and once because you will get back from the other what you gave him. You can have your pie and eat it!
Why does it work this way? Because by giving something, you are tuning yourself to the frequency of that which you give. Let’s say, for example, you need attention. Instead of examining the behavior, facial and verbal expressions of your partner, trying to detect whether he gives you enough attention, you can give attention to him! Ask him how he is feeling right now, how his day went, what he learned today, and if he met any interesting people. Show your genuine interest, and I bet he will be interested in you too. You give attention, and you will get attention in return!
You want love? Give love! You want advice? Give advice! You need an energy boost? Boost up someone else’s energy level and in doing so you will feel your own energy rising! You want people to listen to you? Then first listen carefully to someone else who needs to be heard. You want more friends? Then befriend others! You want more respect from your children? Respect them!
So, in order to get what you want, learn to give it first.
Instead of waiting for your significant other to give you love, why don’t you give love to him or her?
Instead of waiting for your children to respect you, why don’t you start by respecting them? Be an example.
Instead of dreaming of a wonderful job that satisfies your needs, try to be wonderful at your current job first!
Instead of wanting your friends to invest time and energy in your relationship, why don’t you give some extra time and energy to them?
Instead of waiting for peace and calm to come into your life, why don’t you create the silence and inner balance needed to feel the peace you long for?
It’s all a matter of energy vibrating. By giving what you want to others, you are tuning in to the vibrational energy of what it is you want. If you want love and you give it to others, you are in the energy of love already. Giving love makes you feel that love and thus you then attract more love into your life. Giving attention makes you feel the attention. Giving respect puts you in the energy vibration of respect and you will attract more respect towards yourself.
This works for anything you desire. You will not only get what you want by giving it, but you will also be much less dependent on others. You will feel the power of being in charge of your own life!
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How ugly has society made you?
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364
Summary:
With media creating hype twenty four seven, and the pressure that we face on that same timeline to always look our best, it's no doubt that their is soo many 'after-market' ways to make ourselves look better.
Keywords:
permanent laser hair removal, laser hair removal cost, laser hair removal new york, information on laser hair removal, laser hair removal prices, laser hair removal ny, laser hair removal clinic, lase
Article Body:
With media creating hype twenty four seven, and the pressure that we face on that same timeline to always look our best, it's no doubt that their is soo many 'after-market' ways to make ourselves look better.
We've been made to look one way, in the image of our creators (thanks mom & dad); inyet we find ourselves looking to enlarge or reduce parts of our body, change the color of our skin and eyes, among heaps of others modifications just to fit into what society deems to be desirable. You would be hard pressed to find someone that hasn't been caught up in this meaningless cycle at one point in their life. I'm been in it, heck - I still am in it. I think their is a fine line to be walked with taking pride in the way that you look, without becoming obsessed with it. Wear respectable clothes, brush your teeth, maybe do your hair every once in a while, and for goodness sakes a daily shower, whether you need it or not, goes a long way.
There is soo many different treatments and surgeries out there today, that I think it's easy for us to overlook how ugly society is really making us. Here is how I'm looking at:
- Conservative - Keeping good hygiene through daily showers, deodorant,etc.
- Riding the line - Getting hair removed by lasers to avoid having to shave excessively
- Extreme - Different surgeries both cosmetic and not
It's when you are debating getting into the extreme side, that I think you need to step back and think twice to yourself about: "How ugly has society made me". If you're willing to go under a knife to change the way you look, society has done something ugly with the beautiful baby that your parents first brought into this world. It's essential to always have a level head on yourself, and to love yourself for the way that you are. It's overwhelming the number of people that think that make-up and surgeries,etc are going to change their life. Insecurity and lack of confidence shines through though, and you are still the same on the inside. Beauty is from the inside out!
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364
Summary:
With media creating hype twenty four seven, and the pressure that we face on that same timeline to always look our best, it's no doubt that their is soo many 'after-market' ways to make ourselves look better.
Keywords:
permanent laser hair removal, laser hair removal cost, laser hair removal new york, information on laser hair removal, laser hair removal prices, laser hair removal ny, laser hair removal clinic, lase
Article Body:
With media creating hype twenty four seven, and the pressure that we face on that same timeline to always look our best, it's no doubt that their is soo many 'after-market' ways to make ourselves look better.
We've been made to look one way, in the image of our creators (thanks mom & dad); inyet we find ourselves looking to enlarge or reduce parts of our body, change the color of our skin and eyes, among heaps of others modifications just to fit into what society deems to be desirable. You would be hard pressed to find someone that hasn't been caught up in this meaningless cycle at one point in their life. I'm been in it, heck - I still am in it. I think their is a fine line to be walked with taking pride in the way that you look, without becoming obsessed with it. Wear respectable clothes, brush your teeth, maybe do your hair every once in a while, and for goodness sakes a daily shower, whether you need it or not, goes a long way.
There is soo many different treatments and surgeries out there today, that I think it's easy for us to overlook how ugly society is really making us. Here is how I'm looking at:
- Conservative - Keeping good hygiene through daily showers, deodorant,etc.
- Riding the line - Getting hair removed by lasers to avoid having to shave excessively
- Extreme - Different surgeries both cosmetic and not
It's when you are debating getting into the extreme side, that I think you need to step back and think twice to yourself about: "How ugly has society made me". If you're willing to go under a knife to change the way you look, society has done something ugly with the beautiful baby that your parents first brought into this world. It's essential to always have a level head on yourself, and to love yourself for the way that you are. It's overwhelming the number of people that think that make-up and surgeries,etc are going to change their life. Insecurity and lack of confidence shines through though, and you are still the same on the inside. Beauty is from the inside out!
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Friday, May 28, 2010
Gratitude and the Law of Attraction
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320
Summary:
Gratitude or appreciation of what we already have is necessary to attract things we want. Every day when you wake up try to be thankful. Think about the good things in your live you should be thankful for.
Keywords:
manifestation, attraction, wealth, happiness, success, self help, self improvement
Article Body:
Gratitude or appreciation of what we already have is necessary to attract things we want. Every day when you wake up try to be thankful. Think about the good things in your live you should be thankful for. Appreciate your job (even if you don’t like it).
Feel gratitude for a place to live. If you have some food, some friends or anything else you can find to appreciate, appreciate it. A lot of people don’t have enough even basic things like food, water and their own place to live. It’s natural that you want more, that you want to improve your standard of life, but first you need to feel gratitude for what you already have.
If you start your day with feelings of gratitude you will feel good and you can keep that feeling all day.
But you should also write down something like this: “I am so happy and grateful that…” and then write what you would like to have. For example: “I am very happy and grateful that I make $1 million per year; that I have wonderful and loving wife…etc.” Use the present tense, visualize the things you want, be grateful for them, and think about them as already yours. When you achieve them, you can add new things to your list. When you write about money, start first with amount you believe is possible and then increase the amount when you got the amount you’d written down. Be specific.
When you start doing as described above, at first you might feel strange that you are using present tense for the things you want to have in the future, but it’s important to train your mind and force your mind to think about them in present tense. After some time of playing such “mental ping pong” your mind will obey and will help you to achieve the things you want.
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320
Summary:
Gratitude or appreciation of what we already have is necessary to attract things we want. Every day when you wake up try to be thankful. Think about the good things in your live you should be thankful for.
Keywords:
manifestation, attraction, wealth, happiness, success, self help, self improvement
Article Body:
Gratitude or appreciation of what we already have is necessary to attract things we want. Every day when you wake up try to be thankful. Think about the good things in your live you should be thankful for. Appreciate your job (even if you don’t like it).
Feel gratitude for a place to live. If you have some food, some friends or anything else you can find to appreciate, appreciate it. A lot of people don’t have enough even basic things like food, water and their own place to live. It’s natural that you want more, that you want to improve your standard of life, but first you need to feel gratitude for what you already have.
If you start your day with feelings of gratitude you will feel good and you can keep that feeling all day.
But you should also write down something like this: “I am so happy and grateful that…” and then write what you would like to have. For example: “I am very happy and grateful that I make $1 million per year; that I have wonderful and loving wife…etc.” Use the present tense, visualize the things you want, be grateful for them, and think about them as already yours. When you achieve them, you can add new things to your list. When you write about money, start first with amount you believe is possible and then increase the amount when you got the amount you’d written down. Be specific.
When you start doing as described above, at first you might feel strange that you are using present tense for the things you want to have in the future, but it’s important to train your mind and force your mind to think about them in present tense. After some time of playing such “mental ping pong” your mind will obey and will help you to achieve the things you want.
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Feeling Hopeless
Word Count:
790
Summary:
Letter from a reader who was feeling 'hopeless' and the response that contained a useful tool for getting clarity, focus and raising your vibration--the T-tool.
Keywords:
law of attraction, hopeless, dominant, feeling, attract, vibration, want, t-tool, clarity, expectation, debt, coaching
Article Body:
Letter: "I don't know why I'm writing this - it's so unlike me to actually feel 'hopeless.' I am a single mom raising two teenaged boys. After my youngest was assaulted on the way to school last year, I quit a decent job in television to start my own marketing/p.r. business out of my home. I had two clients that, at the time, which enabled me to make more than I had working for the tv station. And then in March, one of the clients and I parted ways. We had very different expectations. Ultimately, we each had contrasting views over what my role would be. That cut my income in half.
I have attracted one new client - but at a third of what my former client paid. And now, I'm in debt (deeply). And now, I'm in debt (deeply), my account is overdrawn because my other significant client "got behind" and didn't put in my automatic payment into my account until yesterday - and it takes 24-72 hours for it to show up (they had told me it was going to be put in last Thursday)! My ex's child support is late and I don't even have enough money to pay for groceries until the money shows up. I'm terrified that checks will bounce and I'll be left with nothing.
I can't sleep. My stomach is in knots. I almost feel as if my kids would be better off with their dad. He's very well off and could afford to give them everything I can't.
I don't know how to get out of this poverty mentality. I don't know why I have such feelings of lack when it comes to my finances. Tomorrow I have a meeting with a potential client and I can't even focus on putting together a presentation for him. It's as if I already know that he won't want to work with me, let alone PAY me. I get so up for things, I have such great expectations and then everything falls flat.
In ALL other areas of my life, I'm doing well. My kids are terrific - good hearts, straight-A students, excellent athletes. I don't have weight issues.
I don't have problems with my relationships with the opposite sex. It's just that MONEY seems to be slipping out of my grasp.
Quite honestly, I do believe that money buys a fair amount of happiness. At least for me, knowing what I've gone through these past years, it would buy some peace of mind. And that's what I want. Freedom and peace of mind. To go where I want. To do what I want. To FEEL how I want to feel.
Can you help me get out of this negative spiral?"
A Reader
Rebecca's reply:
"Dear Reader,
Thanks so much for writing. And I hope you are feeling better. YEP. I've been there a few times. I can remember days when all I could do was walk around the house saying, 'I just want to feel good' over and over. Eventually, I did start to feel better. Now, feeling good is my dominant feeling.
Actually, you are an excellent 'attractor'--look at what you are telling your self about money and then notice how you are attracting more of the same.
If I were coaching you, I would ask you to take a piece of paper, and draw a big letter T on it. Then label the left column “I don’t want” and the right hand column, ‘”I do want”.
First make a list of everything you don’t want. Just use the letter you sent to me and write down stuff like:
I don’t want clients paying me late.
I don’t want cheap clients who can’t afford to pay what I’m worth.
I don't want child support payments to be late.
Get all the negatives OUT of yourself and onto paper.
Then go through each item, and ask your self, “If I don’t want this, what do I want?” and write down what you DO want in the right hand column.
When you’ve written a ‘Do Want’ for each item on the left, FOLD THE PAPER down the middle so you are looking at the 'Do Want' list. Keep that list in front of you at all times. Start to imagine what it would feel like having clients who JOYFULLY pay for your services. How wonderful it is when the Child Support checks arrive a day early! Work at keeping your FOCUS on what you DO WANT. If you start to think or talk about something on the ‘Don’t Want’ side, just say, “I’ve dealt with that, AND what I DO want is…”
The T-tool is the BEST Law of Attraction Tool for getting clarity! And once you have clarity, what you want IS on its way to you.
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Letter from a reader who was feeling 'hopeless' and the response that contained a useful tool for getting clarity, focus and raising your vibration--the T-tool.
Keywords:
law of attraction, hopeless, dominant, feeling, attract, vibration, want, t-tool, clarity, expectation, debt, coaching
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Letter: "I don't know why I'm writing this - it's so unlike me to actually feel 'hopeless.' I am a single mom raising two teenaged boys. After my youngest was assaulted on the way to school last year, I quit a decent job in television to start my own marketing/p.r. business out of my home. I had two clients that, at the time, which enabled me to make more than I had working for the tv station. And then in March, one of the clients and I parted ways. We had very different expectations. Ultimately, we each had contrasting views over what my role would be. That cut my income in half.
I have attracted one new client - but at a third of what my former client paid. And now, I'm in debt (deeply). And now, I'm in debt (deeply), my account is overdrawn because my other significant client "got behind" and didn't put in my automatic payment into my account until yesterday - and it takes 24-72 hours for it to show up (they had told me it was going to be put in last Thursday)! My ex's child support is late and I don't even have enough money to pay for groceries until the money shows up. I'm terrified that checks will bounce and I'll be left with nothing.
I can't sleep. My stomach is in knots. I almost feel as if my kids would be better off with their dad. He's very well off and could afford to give them everything I can't.
I don't know how to get out of this poverty mentality. I don't know why I have such feelings of lack when it comes to my finances. Tomorrow I have a meeting with a potential client and I can't even focus on putting together a presentation for him. It's as if I already know that he won't want to work with me, let alone PAY me. I get so up for things, I have such great expectations and then everything falls flat.
In ALL other areas of my life, I'm doing well. My kids are terrific - good hearts, straight-A students, excellent athletes. I don't have weight issues.
I don't have problems with my relationships with the opposite sex. It's just that MONEY seems to be slipping out of my grasp.
Quite honestly, I do believe that money buys a fair amount of happiness. At least for me, knowing what I've gone through these past years, it would buy some peace of mind. And that's what I want. Freedom and peace of mind. To go where I want. To do what I want. To FEEL how I want to feel.
Can you help me get out of this negative spiral?"
A Reader
Rebecca's reply:
"Dear Reader,
Thanks so much for writing. And I hope you are feeling better. YEP. I've been there a few times. I can remember days when all I could do was walk around the house saying, 'I just want to feel good' over and over. Eventually, I did start to feel better. Now, feeling good is my dominant feeling.
Actually, you are an excellent 'attractor'--look at what you are telling your self about money and then notice how you are attracting more of the same.
If I were coaching you, I would ask you to take a piece of paper, and draw a big letter T on it. Then label the left column “I don’t want” and the right hand column, ‘”I do want”.
First make a list of everything you don’t want. Just use the letter you sent to me and write down stuff like:
I don’t want clients paying me late.
I don’t want cheap clients who can’t afford to pay what I’m worth.
I don't want child support payments to be late.
Get all the negatives OUT of yourself and onto paper.
Then go through each item, and ask your self, “If I don’t want this, what do I want?” and write down what you DO want in the right hand column.
When you’ve written a ‘Do Want’ for each item on the left, FOLD THE PAPER down the middle so you are looking at the 'Do Want' list. Keep that list in front of you at all times. Start to imagine what it would feel like having clients who JOYFULLY pay for your services. How wonderful it is when the Child Support checks arrive a day early! Work at keeping your FOCUS on what you DO WANT. If you start to think or talk about something on the ‘Don’t Want’ side, just say, “I’ve dealt with that, AND what I DO want is…”
The T-tool is the BEST Law of Attraction Tool for getting clarity! And once you have clarity, what you want IS on its way to you.
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El Secreto
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Summary:
Spanish Intro to the Law of Attraction Conference in Barcelona by guru Dieg M. Katzman MBA. Los origenes de la Ley de la Atracción, reglas para el éxito y fórmulas para empezar a producir la riqueza espiritual y material.
Keywords:
secreto, el secreto, ley de la atracción, atracción, coaching, magnetismo, éxito, fórmulas, felicidad, the secret, LOA
Article Body:
Seminario del Éxito – Ley de la Atracción
El siguiente es un extracto de la conferencia introductoria al éxito que brinda el coach Diego M. Katzman, Empresario MBA, fundador de Secretia y gurú de técnicas de auto-superación, riqueza y prosperidad. Aprovéchala; pronto podrás participar de este increíble seminario en vivo. Y podemos asegurarte, que nada será como antes. Entre tanto, puedes comenzar a conocer los secretos mejor guardados para el éxito con el Secreto de la Riqueza Absoluta, y participando en el programa de Coaching de nuestro equipo.
¿Somos todo lo que Queremos y Podemos ser?
Hablemos un poco del condicionamiento que existe que dificulta el poder superarse... ¿No hay acaso una sensación de que uno ya es como es y ese es el fin de la historia?...Sin embargo, paralelamente todos nosotros guardamos en un lugar de la mente una imagen de lo que "podría ser", es decir, nuestro escenario ideal . ¿Qué tal si buscamos, en un acto de gran imaginación, buscar en nuestra cabeza esa imagen, ya sea de nosotros mismos siendo ricos, con la familia, o bien el amor o en el lugar que anhelamos … Bien, ¿ya estáis pensando en eso? ¿Tenéis la imagen bien clara de vuestra realidad ideal? Ahora vamos a preguntarnos muy sinceramente por qué es que no estamos de hecho ocupando esa realidad, si es que es lo que queremos en el fondo de nuestra alma...
Prejuicios, Causas, Obstáculos
¿Redordáis el film "The Matrix"?. Existen de hecho modelos prefabricados y prejuicios, generados por una serie de fuentes sociales, a fin de mantenerlo a uno en una suerte de realidad paralela a su propio ideal...aquí hay que hacer un ejercicio del tipo de Alcohólicos Anónimos, que consiste en vernos en esta nuestra realidad y efectuar una comparación con el ideal que antes pensamos, y hacerlo con completa sinceridad y sin obstáculos mentales...el resultado suele ser un poco frustrante como para pensarlo abiertamente, en el nivel conciente, pero somos personas sensibles y hay un motivo por el cual no estamos aquí ¿verdad?....Y es que todos sabemos que no somos la totalidad de lo que podríamos ser....
Pero, ¿por qué?
Avancemos un poco, si os parece: ¿Por qué no somos todo lo que podríamos ser? Las posibilidades de ser son infinitas, y sabemos bien que nuestra potencialidad también lo es. Podemos mencionar factores tanto internos como externos; entre los internos se encuentra por ejemplo la imagen que tienes de ti mismo, lo que te han dicho que eres toda tu vida, y entre los externos están las instituciones como la religión y el estado de alguna forma conspirando (ey, cuidado con esta palabra, que no nos pongan en la lista negra, mejor dicho en el website negro?) … No tienen mucha ganancia para ellos que cada uno de nosotros sea un Dios ¿o sí?, es mucho mas lucrativo que haya un Dios y que todos seamos sus temerosos sirvientes. No se si recordáis aquella otra película 1984....¿O tal vez estamos siendo demasiado paranoicos y la realidad no es tan tremendamente manipuladora, y de hecho da un buen sitio a la libertad?
Empíricamente, sin embargo, es innegable que estamos programados para NO poder acceder a ciertas de nuestras propias potencialidades.
Dentro de las variables externas, también se encuentra el etnocentrismo, que genera que no podamos ver como legítimos los postulados de otras culturas, y así seamos -por así decirlo- esclavos de aquella en la cual nacimos...
Cerca de la Idea
Si no tuviéramos todas estas vendas culturales y personales en los ojos, probablemente podríamos funcionar mucho más cerca de la naturalidad de un niño, y estaríamos al igual que los bebés en contacto con las leyes naturales. Pero esta claridad básica que los sabios de la humanidad han mostrado desde el comienzo de los tiempos (vean por ejemplo las enseñanzas del Tao Te Ching) se han ido censurando, en detrimento del crecimiento individual.
El Secreto: Poder del Pensamiento
Lo que muchos llaman terapia de la atracción, que es un gran éxito en todo el mundo, y que se desprende en parte de esta película que acabamos de ver, es sencillamente el apoyo sistemático (coaching) orientado a que una persona tome conciencia de su poder de atraer hacia sí cualquier cosa por medio del uso de su pensamiento. Un amigo mío me contó el otro día que había salido con su automóvil y cuando estaba a mitad de camino, se dio cuenta de que no había llevado consigo la licencia de conductor...un poco más adelante en el camino, vio un móvil de la policía deteniendo vehículos al azar...mi amigo se empezó a poner tenso "que no me paren" pensaba, una y otra vez. Buscaba aparentar indiferencia y tranquilidad, pero como es obvio, la policía lo detuvo, y … como es costumbre en mi país de origen, pudo irse a casa dejándole unos billetes!! (risas), no ahora de veras... estoy seguro de que todos conocéis la sensación, seguro que os ha ocurrido alguna vez, ¿no? Cuando piensas "que no me pare, que no me pare" pero en alguna parte sabes que es justamente por esa sintonía de pensamiento que te van a detener. Lo primero que quiero decir aquí es que, más allá de toda la teoría que haya aquí, hay un hecho innegable, y es que todos los que estamos aquí tenemos bastante poco dominio de nuestro pensamiento. Para graficar mi punto, vamos a hacer otro pequeño ejercicio: Tratad de pensar en algo…cualquier cosa que deseáis. No sé, por ejemplo, en una persona a quien quieres. Pensad cada uno en esa persona durante un minuto. Ni siquiera, durante medio minuto. Fijáos cómo en tanto intentáis pensar en ella, se os cruzan en la mente cientos de otros pensamientos "accidentales"...como "quien es este sujeto que está hablando", "qué tengo que hacer más tarde", y varias cosas más (por no mencionar que cuando dije "Pensad en cualquier cosa", casi nadie pudo visualizar un pensamiento de forma inmediata!). Cuando mi amigo pensó con tanta fuerza que por el amor de dios la policía no lo detuviera, lo que hizo fue proyectar dos imágenes: Una era "Policía", la otra "Detener". La mente infinita (¿qué es esto? ¿Existe tal cosa?) sólo sintoniza esta frecuencia. No le importa que le agregues la palabra sí o la palabra no...solamente capta las imágenes que mantienes en la mente con intensidad. Es por esto que en general muchos de nuestros deseos no se cumplen: Porque los pensamos del modo en que recién pensamos en la persona a quien queremos: Interrumpidamente, con una señal sucia, poco clara. Entonces aclaremos esto: El receptor (¡y aquí no vamos a hablar de Dios, por favor!) tiene como mínimo dos condiciones:
La primera es que RECIBE únicamente pensamiento claro, continuo, nítido.
La segunda es que no toma en cuenta vicisitudes semánticas de la imagen, sino que sólo recibe la imagen tal como es visualizada.
Más Cuestiones y Dificultades (si no hubiese tantas, este seminario no sería necesario, ¿verdad?)
En la tradición judeo-cristiana, Dios creó el mundo no con las manos, ni con dinero, ni con una marcha en la plaza ?, sino con la palabra. La palabra en realidad no representa más que una función comunicativa del pensamiento. El fondo del asunto es que Dios creó el mundo con el pensamiento. Esta noción no es rara entre la mayoría de los otros pueblos de la humanidad.
Otra cosa que deseo transmitir: Todo lo que está vinculado con lo positivo (incluyendo, por ejemplo, ser Seropositivo- mira hasta dónde se extienden las cosas en el lenguaje!-) está hoy estereotipado como algo entre poco cursi y poco realista. El cinismo de nuestros tiempos ha hecho que la idea de pensamiento positivo fuera a parar en el imaginario cultural junto con un fantasma o el juego de la copa, ¿no es así?
Volviendo a dios, y aunque a esta altura sea casi una obviedad, voy a señalar que no es casualidad que esté escrito que fuimos creados a su imagen y semejanza....que estamos diseñados para crear y materializar con la sencilla ayuda del pensamiento...el quid de esta cuestión yace en que por lo general somos incapaces de decir algo tan directo y concreto como "deseo LUZ", pensamos "bueno, este, es decir....yo quisiera, si es que puedo pedir, ¿no? tal vez algo que me traiga éxito con las chicas...o poder quedarme en mi casa en lugar de salir a trabajar a la mañana"...Fijaos la diferencia: LUZ. Cuando reina la oscuridad, y aparece el pensamiento "Haya LUZ", el nivel vibratorio de la idea es tan alto, que es prácticamente imposible que sea desoído.
¿El Coaching de la Atracción es simplemente lograr limpiar el pensamiento de "accidentes" y poder meditar? En realidad esto un principio, porque al meditar no estamos necesariamente visualizando algo y tampoco le hemos adjuntado la INTENCION de que la visualización se materialice. Son, entonces, tres niveles diferentes de acción y pensamiento: El primero, poder despejar la mente, y no permitir que las ideas se paseen libremente por ella. Lo segundo, es mantener en la conciencia una idea clara, irreductible, visual y luminosa, de lo que queremos ver hecho realidad. Cualquier cosa. Lo tercero es la intención, que en realidad ya desde un principio acompaña a los dos anteriores. Luego de esto, resta comprender que la contemplación de esa idea no se desvanece cuando la quitamos del foco de la conciencia, sino que tiende a aferrarse al transcurrir inconciente en tanto más la retenemos. Es decir, más la piensas, más se queda haciendo eco. El pensamiento subconsciente es el que está en realidad más intensamente conectado al fin de cuentas con lo universal...como todos vosotros -o por lo menos quienes han estudiado psicología sabéis- la mente inconciente es mente técnicamente hablando, mientras que lo que concebimos como el YO o el foco de conciencia no sería más que una mínima porción de esa mente que sucumbió a la evolución…la conciencia es poco más que una ilusión, pero tiene la carta ganadora: La intención es exclusivamente suya.
Definiendo el Éxito – Pidiendo el Éxito
En este seminario dijimos que íbamos a hablar del éxito. La palabra éxito esta en el nombre del seminario, seguramente muchos de vosotros se acercaron porque les atrajo esa palabra...
Pero, ¿qué es el éxito? ¿Alguien puede definir qué es el éxito para él o ella? Si, tú, por favor..... " el éxito es la realización de los sueños", "el éxito es conseguir la independencia" .Bien, estas ideas a mi son en verdad directas, al parecer vosotros dos sabéis lo que deseáis. Sin embargo, si tuviera que dar un porcentaje de posibilidad de que vuestro éxito se materialice a partir de vuestras definiciones (que es como vosotros VISUALIZAIS ese éxito) debo decir que esa posibilidad es bastante baja... expresar que tener éxito es la independencia es bonito, pero la independencia es un concepto, y esta en principio compuesto por una serie de pensamientos...lo mismo ocurre con los sueños...todos sabemos lo que son los sueños, pero sigue siendo una noción algo intangible... quiero contarles un caso que le oí decir hace poco en una conferencia a Malcolm Gladwell, que escribió "The Tipping Point"...Malcolm nos contó sobre un tal Howard Moscowitz, que según el es el reinventor en Norteamérica de la salsa de tomate. Veamos: la empresa Campbell´s contrató al tal Moscowitz para dar con la mejor salsa de tomate posible...esto fue alrededor de los años cincuenta...Moscowitz hizo una serie de pruebas y de Focus Groups (un término inventado por el gran inventor de términos Robert K. Merton, quien a su vez hizo una de las contribuciones más importantes al concepto de la Ley de Atracción, ya lo veremos en un momento; quedaos con el nombre, Robert K Merton).Y en los Focus Groups consultó a varias centenas de personas sobre cómo sería su salsa de tomate ideal...la gente le daba respuestas tales como "Ummm...yo diría que con muchos vegetales, pero cortados pequeños" , "a ver....sabrosa, bien sabrosa y espesa, aunque sin perder el sabor a tomate" o "no tan líquida, aunque un poco sí, y con muchas verduras y otras especias", y muchísimas más respuestas del estilo...Moskowitz pensó muchísimo, y no lograba dar con la fórmula que Campbell's le había encargado...finalmente tuvo un instante de genialidad, de iluminación....e inventó la hoy hiper popular salsa "Extra Chunky", algo así como Extra Gruesa. En español esta anéctoda deja algo de riqueza semántica en el camino, pero los que hablan inglés aquí, me imagino que casi todos, comprenderán que el nombre "Extra Chunky" expresa con mucho poder de síntesis lo que toda la gente de un modo u otro le decía en las entrevistas y los Focus Groups. Moskowitz empezó entonces a inventar muchos de los productos más populares en el mercado de los Estados Unidos, y como es obvio, alguien le preguntó en cierto punto dónde residía su genio: El hombre fue muy directo "Consigo decir lo que la gente no consigue poner en palabras. Porque lo cierto es que la gente NO SABE DECIR LO QUE QUIERE"...tiene una idea vaga, en el mejor de los casos una buena idea, pero no puede TRANSMITIRLA con claridad. Yo Encuentro la IMAGEN y la PALABRA que yace detrás de lo que me dicen que les gustaría."
No sé si es preciso decirlo, pero esto es 100 por ciento aplicable a lo que veníamos hablando: El problema de la gente no es que no desea con la suficiente pasión, sino que tiene dificultad para transmitir con absoluta claridad lo que quiere, y por ello es que no tiene interlocutor en la realidad.
Sucede Lo que Se Espera que Suceda
Ahora sí, os voy a comentar finalmente sobre Robert Merton y por qué el Seminario del Exito que brindaré pronto es tan especial. Este señor Merton inventó, entre otros términos geniales y altamente marketineros, la idea de Profesía Autocumplida o Autorrealizada (también conocida en ciertos ámbitos como "efecto Pigmalión". ¿Qué es esto? Es precisamente lo que le ocurrió a mi amigo cuando salió sin su licencia de conductor; temió con tanta intensidad que le ocurriera algo, y con su mismo temor generó que ocurriese. Merton estudió muchísimos casos donde ocurría esto, y con su estudio dejó sentado un importante antecedente en la psicología. Personalmente, creo que se trató de un hito, aunque en el ámbito científico no fue revolucionario ni mucho menos...y esto se refleja en que transcurrió muchísimo tiempo hasta que alguien considerara a este fenómeno como algo digno de dedicarle un tratamiento...fijáos qué increíble: Un sujeto demuestra científicamente que los pensamientos de las personas se convierten en su realidad, y nadie toma la posta y se encarga de desarrollar un "antídoto"...es cierto que sí han habido toneladas de corrientes de pensamiento positivo, pero nada destacale que haya provenido desde el ámbito de la ciencia. Mi seminario del éxito, que en algunos días voy a presentar por primera vez en España, es la respuesta a ese vacío. Consiste en la puesta en práctica de una serie de técnicas comprobadas científicamente que detectan y aislan los pensamientos que eventualmente llevarían la realidad que se teme, esta futura realidad que al comienzo de esta charla llamé algo así como "inevitable" o "ineludible", ese destino que nos hemos fijado casi como un plan, y los reemplaza por otros más afines a las metas que nos logramos definir luego de un concienzudo análisis interno...mirad, haremos lo mismo que hizo Howard Moskowitz con el nombre de la salsa de tomate, pero con vuestras propias metas, las definiremos con la máxima exactitud posible, y a continuación, daremos una serie de órdenes a la mente central para que "oficialice" las imágenes de esas metas, tal que queden impresas en el subconciente y funcionen como la máquina de atracción que son. Imagináos que el margen de error de lo que estamos hablando es mínimo. Okay, quien esté pensando que esto puede hacerlo solo, en la tina, en verdad no está del todo errado (en un mundo ideal). No es que quiera desalentaros, pero fijáos si esta noche cuando estáis en la tina lográis concrentraros como es debido para poner en marcha la fuerza de la atracción. Os deseo suerte, de todo corazón.
Personalmente -como muchos aquí ya deben saber por mi sitio Secretia.com- he sido bendecido con estos secretos, los cuales hace algún tiempo decidí compartir en el Pack El Secreto de la Riqueza Absoluta disponible de Secretia.com...tardé algo así como tres años en transcribir, editar y traducir todo ese material, cuya mayor parte eran textos en inglés de los años 10' y 20'. Hoy recibo algo así como 50 cartas por día de gente que me cuenta cómo su vida ha cambiado desde que han podido hacer algo TAN sencillo pero a la vez TAN ESCURRIDIZO como tener foco en el pensamiento. Y esto es lo que resulta tan increíble, que a pesar de que vivimos bajo la ilusión de que controlamos nuestros pensamientos, la realidad es que ellos nos controlan a nosotros, a menos que -como se suele decir- tomemos el toro por las astas, y eso es precisamente lo que vamos a hacer de aquí a diez días cuando dictemos el Seminario, que os grantizo, va a sorprenderos muchísimo...es que simplemente es impresionante tomar conciencia de todo el tiempo y la energía que hemos desperdiciado hasta ahora, sólo porque nadie se detuvo a revelarnos este secreto.
No dejes de ser una de las miles de personas que ya conocen El Secreto de la Riqueza. Haz Clic Aquí para saber más sobre este increíble descubrimiento!
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Spanish Intro to the Law of Attraction Conference in Barcelona by guru Dieg M. Katzman MBA. Los origenes de la Ley de la Atracción, reglas para el éxito y fórmulas para empezar a producir la riqueza espiritual y material.
Keywords:
secreto, el secreto, ley de la atracción, atracción, coaching, magnetismo, éxito, fórmulas, felicidad, the secret, LOA
Article Body:
Seminario del Éxito – Ley de la Atracción
El siguiente es un extracto de la conferencia introductoria al éxito que brinda el coach Diego M. Katzman, Empresario MBA, fundador de Secretia y gurú de técnicas de auto-superación, riqueza y prosperidad. Aprovéchala; pronto podrás participar de este increíble seminario en vivo. Y podemos asegurarte, que nada será como antes. Entre tanto, puedes comenzar a conocer los secretos mejor guardados para el éxito con el Secreto de la Riqueza Absoluta, y participando en el programa de Coaching de nuestro equipo.
¿Somos todo lo que Queremos y Podemos ser?
Hablemos un poco del condicionamiento que existe que dificulta el poder superarse... ¿No hay acaso una sensación de que uno ya es como es y ese es el fin de la historia?...Sin embargo, paralelamente todos nosotros guardamos en un lugar de la mente una imagen de lo que "podría ser", es decir, nuestro escenario ideal . ¿Qué tal si buscamos, en un acto de gran imaginación, buscar en nuestra cabeza esa imagen, ya sea de nosotros mismos siendo ricos, con la familia, o bien el amor o en el lugar que anhelamos … Bien, ¿ya estáis pensando en eso? ¿Tenéis la imagen bien clara de vuestra realidad ideal? Ahora vamos a preguntarnos muy sinceramente por qué es que no estamos de hecho ocupando esa realidad, si es que es lo que queremos en el fondo de nuestra alma...
Prejuicios, Causas, Obstáculos
¿Redordáis el film "The Matrix"?. Existen de hecho modelos prefabricados y prejuicios, generados por una serie de fuentes sociales, a fin de mantenerlo a uno en una suerte de realidad paralela a su propio ideal...aquí hay que hacer un ejercicio del tipo de Alcohólicos Anónimos, que consiste en vernos en esta nuestra realidad y efectuar una comparación con el ideal que antes pensamos, y hacerlo con completa sinceridad y sin obstáculos mentales...el resultado suele ser un poco frustrante como para pensarlo abiertamente, en el nivel conciente, pero somos personas sensibles y hay un motivo por el cual no estamos aquí ¿verdad?....Y es que todos sabemos que no somos la totalidad de lo que podríamos ser....
Pero, ¿por qué?
Avancemos un poco, si os parece: ¿Por qué no somos todo lo que podríamos ser? Las posibilidades de ser son infinitas, y sabemos bien que nuestra potencialidad también lo es. Podemos mencionar factores tanto internos como externos; entre los internos se encuentra por ejemplo la imagen que tienes de ti mismo, lo que te han dicho que eres toda tu vida, y entre los externos están las instituciones como la religión y el estado de alguna forma conspirando (ey, cuidado con esta palabra, que no nos pongan en la lista negra, mejor dicho en el website negro?) … No tienen mucha ganancia para ellos que cada uno de nosotros sea un Dios ¿o sí?, es mucho mas lucrativo que haya un Dios y que todos seamos sus temerosos sirvientes. No se si recordáis aquella otra película 1984....¿O tal vez estamos siendo demasiado paranoicos y la realidad no es tan tremendamente manipuladora, y de hecho da un buen sitio a la libertad?
Empíricamente, sin embargo, es innegable que estamos programados para NO poder acceder a ciertas de nuestras propias potencialidades.
Dentro de las variables externas, también se encuentra el etnocentrismo, que genera que no podamos ver como legítimos los postulados de otras culturas, y así seamos -por así decirlo- esclavos de aquella en la cual nacimos...
Cerca de la Idea
Si no tuviéramos todas estas vendas culturales y personales en los ojos, probablemente podríamos funcionar mucho más cerca de la naturalidad de un niño, y estaríamos al igual que los bebés en contacto con las leyes naturales. Pero esta claridad básica que los sabios de la humanidad han mostrado desde el comienzo de los tiempos (vean por ejemplo las enseñanzas del Tao Te Ching) se han ido censurando, en detrimento del crecimiento individual.
El Secreto: Poder del Pensamiento
Lo que muchos llaman terapia de la atracción, que es un gran éxito en todo el mundo, y que se desprende en parte de esta película que acabamos de ver, es sencillamente el apoyo sistemático (coaching) orientado a que una persona tome conciencia de su poder de atraer hacia sí cualquier cosa por medio del uso de su pensamiento. Un amigo mío me contó el otro día que había salido con su automóvil y cuando estaba a mitad de camino, se dio cuenta de que no había llevado consigo la licencia de conductor...un poco más adelante en el camino, vio un móvil de la policía deteniendo vehículos al azar...mi amigo se empezó a poner tenso "que no me paren" pensaba, una y otra vez. Buscaba aparentar indiferencia y tranquilidad, pero como es obvio, la policía lo detuvo, y … como es costumbre en mi país de origen, pudo irse a casa dejándole unos billetes!! (risas), no ahora de veras... estoy seguro de que todos conocéis la sensación, seguro que os ha ocurrido alguna vez, ¿no? Cuando piensas "que no me pare, que no me pare" pero en alguna parte sabes que es justamente por esa sintonía de pensamiento que te van a detener. Lo primero que quiero decir aquí es que, más allá de toda la teoría que haya aquí, hay un hecho innegable, y es que todos los que estamos aquí tenemos bastante poco dominio de nuestro pensamiento. Para graficar mi punto, vamos a hacer otro pequeño ejercicio: Tratad de pensar en algo…cualquier cosa que deseáis. No sé, por ejemplo, en una persona a quien quieres. Pensad cada uno en esa persona durante un minuto. Ni siquiera, durante medio minuto. Fijáos cómo en tanto intentáis pensar en ella, se os cruzan en la mente cientos de otros pensamientos "accidentales"...como "quien es este sujeto que está hablando", "qué tengo que hacer más tarde", y varias cosas más (por no mencionar que cuando dije "Pensad en cualquier cosa", casi nadie pudo visualizar un pensamiento de forma inmediata!). Cuando mi amigo pensó con tanta fuerza que por el amor de dios la policía no lo detuviera, lo que hizo fue proyectar dos imágenes: Una era "Policía", la otra "Detener". La mente infinita (¿qué es esto? ¿Existe tal cosa?) sólo sintoniza esta frecuencia. No le importa que le agregues la palabra sí o la palabra no...solamente capta las imágenes que mantienes en la mente con intensidad. Es por esto que en general muchos de nuestros deseos no se cumplen: Porque los pensamos del modo en que recién pensamos en la persona a quien queremos: Interrumpidamente, con una señal sucia, poco clara. Entonces aclaremos esto: El receptor (¡y aquí no vamos a hablar de Dios, por favor!) tiene como mínimo dos condiciones:
La primera es que RECIBE únicamente pensamiento claro, continuo, nítido.
La segunda es que no toma en cuenta vicisitudes semánticas de la imagen, sino que sólo recibe la imagen tal como es visualizada.
Más Cuestiones y Dificultades (si no hubiese tantas, este seminario no sería necesario, ¿verdad?)
En la tradición judeo-cristiana, Dios creó el mundo no con las manos, ni con dinero, ni con una marcha en la plaza ?, sino con la palabra. La palabra en realidad no representa más que una función comunicativa del pensamiento. El fondo del asunto es que Dios creó el mundo con el pensamiento. Esta noción no es rara entre la mayoría de los otros pueblos de la humanidad.
Otra cosa que deseo transmitir: Todo lo que está vinculado con lo positivo (incluyendo, por ejemplo, ser Seropositivo- mira hasta dónde se extienden las cosas en el lenguaje!-) está hoy estereotipado como algo entre poco cursi y poco realista. El cinismo de nuestros tiempos ha hecho que la idea de pensamiento positivo fuera a parar en el imaginario cultural junto con un fantasma o el juego de la copa, ¿no es así?
Volviendo a dios, y aunque a esta altura sea casi una obviedad, voy a señalar que no es casualidad que esté escrito que fuimos creados a su imagen y semejanza....que estamos diseñados para crear y materializar con la sencilla ayuda del pensamiento...el quid de esta cuestión yace en que por lo general somos incapaces de decir algo tan directo y concreto como "deseo LUZ", pensamos "bueno, este, es decir....yo quisiera, si es que puedo pedir, ¿no? tal vez algo que me traiga éxito con las chicas...o poder quedarme en mi casa en lugar de salir a trabajar a la mañana"...Fijaos la diferencia: LUZ. Cuando reina la oscuridad, y aparece el pensamiento "Haya LUZ", el nivel vibratorio de la idea es tan alto, que es prácticamente imposible que sea desoído.
¿El Coaching de la Atracción es simplemente lograr limpiar el pensamiento de "accidentes" y poder meditar? En realidad esto un principio, porque al meditar no estamos necesariamente visualizando algo y tampoco le hemos adjuntado la INTENCION de que la visualización se materialice. Son, entonces, tres niveles diferentes de acción y pensamiento: El primero, poder despejar la mente, y no permitir que las ideas se paseen libremente por ella. Lo segundo, es mantener en la conciencia una idea clara, irreductible, visual y luminosa, de lo que queremos ver hecho realidad. Cualquier cosa. Lo tercero es la intención, que en realidad ya desde un principio acompaña a los dos anteriores. Luego de esto, resta comprender que la contemplación de esa idea no se desvanece cuando la quitamos del foco de la conciencia, sino que tiende a aferrarse al transcurrir inconciente en tanto más la retenemos. Es decir, más la piensas, más se queda haciendo eco. El pensamiento subconsciente es el que está en realidad más intensamente conectado al fin de cuentas con lo universal...como todos vosotros -o por lo menos quienes han estudiado psicología sabéis- la mente inconciente es mente técnicamente hablando, mientras que lo que concebimos como el YO o el foco de conciencia no sería más que una mínima porción de esa mente que sucumbió a la evolución…la conciencia es poco más que una ilusión, pero tiene la carta ganadora: La intención es exclusivamente suya.
Definiendo el Éxito – Pidiendo el Éxito
En este seminario dijimos que íbamos a hablar del éxito. La palabra éxito esta en el nombre del seminario, seguramente muchos de vosotros se acercaron porque les atrajo esa palabra...
Pero, ¿qué es el éxito? ¿Alguien puede definir qué es el éxito para él o ella? Si, tú, por favor..... " el éxito es la realización de los sueños", "el éxito es conseguir la independencia" .Bien, estas ideas a mi son en verdad directas, al parecer vosotros dos sabéis lo que deseáis. Sin embargo, si tuviera que dar un porcentaje de posibilidad de que vuestro éxito se materialice a partir de vuestras definiciones (que es como vosotros VISUALIZAIS ese éxito) debo decir que esa posibilidad es bastante baja... expresar que tener éxito es la independencia es bonito, pero la independencia es un concepto, y esta en principio compuesto por una serie de pensamientos...lo mismo ocurre con los sueños...todos sabemos lo que son los sueños, pero sigue siendo una noción algo intangible... quiero contarles un caso que le oí decir hace poco en una conferencia a Malcolm Gladwell, que escribió "The Tipping Point"...Malcolm nos contó sobre un tal Howard Moscowitz, que según el es el reinventor en Norteamérica de la salsa de tomate. Veamos: la empresa Campbell´s contrató al tal Moscowitz para dar con la mejor salsa de tomate posible...esto fue alrededor de los años cincuenta...Moscowitz hizo una serie de pruebas y de Focus Groups (un término inventado por el gran inventor de términos Robert K. Merton, quien a su vez hizo una de las contribuciones más importantes al concepto de la Ley de Atracción, ya lo veremos en un momento; quedaos con el nombre, Robert K Merton).Y en los Focus Groups consultó a varias centenas de personas sobre cómo sería su salsa de tomate ideal...la gente le daba respuestas tales como "Ummm...yo diría que con muchos vegetales, pero cortados pequeños" , "a ver....sabrosa, bien sabrosa y espesa, aunque sin perder el sabor a tomate" o "no tan líquida, aunque un poco sí, y con muchas verduras y otras especias", y muchísimas más respuestas del estilo...Moskowitz pensó muchísimo, y no lograba dar con la fórmula que Campbell's le había encargado...finalmente tuvo un instante de genialidad, de iluminación....e inventó la hoy hiper popular salsa "Extra Chunky", algo así como Extra Gruesa. En español esta anéctoda deja algo de riqueza semántica en el camino, pero los que hablan inglés aquí, me imagino que casi todos, comprenderán que el nombre "Extra Chunky" expresa con mucho poder de síntesis lo que toda la gente de un modo u otro le decía en las entrevistas y los Focus Groups. Moskowitz empezó entonces a inventar muchos de los productos más populares en el mercado de los Estados Unidos, y como es obvio, alguien le preguntó en cierto punto dónde residía su genio: El hombre fue muy directo "Consigo decir lo que la gente no consigue poner en palabras. Porque lo cierto es que la gente NO SABE DECIR LO QUE QUIERE"...tiene una idea vaga, en el mejor de los casos una buena idea, pero no puede TRANSMITIRLA con claridad. Yo Encuentro la IMAGEN y la PALABRA que yace detrás de lo que me dicen que les gustaría."
No sé si es preciso decirlo, pero esto es 100 por ciento aplicable a lo que veníamos hablando: El problema de la gente no es que no desea con la suficiente pasión, sino que tiene dificultad para transmitir con absoluta claridad lo que quiere, y por ello es que no tiene interlocutor en la realidad.
Sucede Lo que Se Espera que Suceda
Ahora sí, os voy a comentar finalmente sobre Robert Merton y por qué el Seminario del Exito que brindaré pronto es tan especial. Este señor Merton inventó, entre otros términos geniales y altamente marketineros, la idea de Profesía Autocumplida o Autorrealizada (también conocida en ciertos ámbitos como "efecto Pigmalión". ¿Qué es esto? Es precisamente lo que le ocurrió a mi amigo cuando salió sin su licencia de conductor; temió con tanta intensidad que le ocurriera algo, y con su mismo temor generó que ocurriese. Merton estudió muchísimos casos donde ocurría esto, y con su estudio dejó sentado un importante antecedente en la psicología. Personalmente, creo que se trató de un hito, aunque en el ámbito científico no fue revolucionario ni mucho menos...y esto se refleja en que transcurrió muchísimo tiempo hasta que alguien considerara a este fenómeno como algo digno de dedicarle un tratamiento...fijáos qué increíble: Un sujeto demuestra científicamente que los pensamientos de las personas se convierten en su realidad, y nadie toma la posta y se encarga de desarrollar un "antídoto"...es cierto que sí han habido toneladas de corrientes de pensamiento positivo, pero nada destacale que haya provenido desde el ámbito de la ciencia. Mi seminario del éxito, que en algunos días voy a presentar por primera vez en España, es la respuesta a ese vacío. Consiste en la puesta en práctica de una serie de técnicas comprobadas científicamente que detectan y aislan los pensamientos que eventualmente llevarían la realidad que se teme, esta futura realidad que al comienzo de esta charla llamé algo así como "inevitable" o "ineludible", ese destino que nos hemos fijado casi como un plan, y los reemplaza por otros más afines a las metas que nos logramos definir luego de un concienzudo análisis interno...mirad, haremos lo mismo que hizo Howard Moskowitz con el nombre de la salsa de tomate, pero con vuestras propias metas, las definiremos con la máxima exactitud posible, y a continuación, daremos una serie de órdenes a la mente central para que "oficialice" las imágenes de esas metas, tal que queden impresas en el subconciente y funcionen como la máquina de atracción que son. Imagináos que el margen de error de lo que estamos hablando es mínimo. Okay, quien esté pensando que esto puede hacerlo solo, en la tina, en verdad no está del todo errado (en un mundo ideal). No es que quiera desalentaros, pero fijáos si esta noche cuando estáis en la tina lográis concrentraros como es debido para poner en marcha la fuerza de la atracción. Os deseo suerte, de todo corazón.
Personalmente -como muchos aquí ya deben saber por mi sitio Secretia.com- he sido bendecido con estos secretos, los cuales hace algún tiempo decidí compartir en el Pack El Secreto de la Riqueza Absoluta disponible de Secretia.com...tardé algo así como tres años en transcribir, editar y traducir todo ese material, cuya mayor parte eran textos en inglés de los años 10' y 20'. Hoy recibo algo así como 50 cartas por día de gente que me cuenta cómo su vida ha cambiado desde que han podido hacer algo TAN sencillo pero a la vez TAN ESCURRIDIZO como tener foco en el pensamiento. Y esto es lo que resulta tan increíble, que a pesar de que vivimos bajo la ilusión de que controlamos nuestros pensamientos, la realidad es que ellos nos controlan a nosotros, a menos que -como se suele decir- tomemos el toro por las astas, y eso es precisamente lo que vamos a hacer de aquí a diez días cuando dictemos el Seminario, que os grantizo, va a sorprenderos muchísimo...es que simplemente es impresionante tomar conciencia de todo el tiempo y la energía que hemos desperdiciado hasta ahora, sólo porque nadie se detuvo a revelarnos este secreto.
No dejes de ser una de las miles de personas que ya conocen El Secreto de la Riqueza. Haz Clic Aquí para saber más sobre este increíble descubrimiento!
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Thursday, May 27, 2010
Do Women Like Alpha Males?
Word Count:
720
Summary:
Alpha is the first letter of the Greek alphabet. In astronomy, it is the brightest star in a constellation. In common parlance, alpha means to be the first.
Alpha males are guys who seem to be leading the pack, the hunter, the ever-reliable male god. They are all around us, in the ranks burly blue collar workers to the impeccable corporate leaders. So why do women like alpha males; or do they?
Women do not only like alpha males; they adore them! Alpha males are the stuf...
Keywords:
pick up,flirting
Article Body:
Alpha is the first letter of the Greek alphabet. In astronomy, it is the brightest star in a constellation. In common parlance, alpha means to be the first.
Alpha males are guys who seem to be leading the pack, the hunter, the ever-reliable male god. They are all around us, in the ranks burly blue collar workers to the impeccable corporate leaders. So why do women like alpha males; or do they?
Women do not only like alpha males; they adore them! Alpha males are the stuff that women's romantic imaginations are of. These are men who get women's attention wherever they go.
The attraction lies in the power seemingly possessed by alpha males. It's not really just about the money but it is about strength in character and the ability to be respected by his peers.
A woman defines an alpha male as someone who is vocal about what he wants and who does everything to get it. An alpha male is not just cocky our loud, but there is a semblance of authority in his voice that seems to attract others, male or female. An alpha male is filled with confidence about his looks though he may not be handsome and is confident about his intelligence though he may not be a Wharton graduate.
In the animal kingdom the alpha males are those who lead the pack with an aggressive behavior. The animals have their own social structure where the alpha or the dominant males get to mate with the females, with the principle that the alpha males will most probably produce better offsprings. Same goes for the alpha males in the society of humans.
Women describe alpha males as those with an innate superiority and who literally leads the pack. These are males who are aggressive and assertive despite their limitations.
To be able to understand an alpha male, one has to get to know his characteristics such as but not limited to being:
Born leaders
Alpha males are born to lead the pack. They are known to be the peacemakers and the ones responsible for stopping fights after and aggression usually started off by a bully. These men are usually dignified men who have leadership capabilities and they sometimes rule their world. An alpha male is a no nonsense leader who cannot be dictated upon and who stands by his principles.
Gandhi is an alpha male. He is a charismatic leader who refused to be pressured into giving up his cause. He was able to win his battle by espousing non-violence. Microsoft czar Bill Gates is an example of an alpha male who continues to change the world and its people. There are many alpha males in a variety of settings, all of whom have provided inspiration and great leadership to their sectors. Most alpha males are attracted and married to strong and outstanding women.
Confident
Alpha males are so sure of themselves but not to point of being cocky. They have high self esteem, believing that they have the power to do anything they want and to achieve their dreams. They know they have that special something within them but they do not boat nor talk about their strength.
Women are attracted to the alpha because of the confidence that emanates from them. This confidence manifests itself in the way he carries himself and the way he deals with others. This confidence is shown in the way he does things and treats other people. The alpha male's high self esteem makes him confident that he can get the best girl in town. The truth is, the girls usually flock around him.
Assertive
Being confident of himself and in what he can achieve, the alpha male is always assertive but not to the point of being pushy. He knows what he wants and how to get it. He asserts his rights and the rights of his friends. This may be the reason why alpha males are so popular with the pack. He leads them and gives them protection. Women love the alpha male for being assertive, of being able to know he can do it and doing something to achieve what he wants to do.
Born leaders, confident and assertive. These are the qualities that make women swoon over the alpha male. Need we say more?
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720
Summary:
Alpha is the first letter of the Greek alphabet. In astronomy, it is the brightest star in a constellation. In common parlance, alpha means to be the first.
Alpha males are guys who seem to be leading the pack, the hunter, the ever-reliable male god. They are all around us, in the ranks burly blue collar workers to the impeccable corporate leaders. So why do women like alpha males; or do they?
Women do not only like alpha males; they adore them! Alpha males are the stuf...
Keywords:
pick up,flirting
Article Body:
Alpha is the first letter of the Greek alphabet. In astronomy, it is the brightest star in a constellation. In common parlance, alpha means to be the first.
Alpha males are guys who seem to be leading the pack, the hunter, the ever-reliable male god. They are all around us, in the ranks burly blue collar workers to the impeccable corporate leaders. So why do women like alpha males; or do they?
Women do not only like alpha males; they adore them! Alpha males are the stuff that women's romantic imaginations are of. These are men who get women's attention wherever they go.
The attraction lies in the power seemingly possessed by alpha males. It's not really just about the money but it is about strength in character and the ability to be respected by his peers.
A woman defines an alpha male as someone who is vocal about what he wants and who does everything to get it. An alpha male is not just cocky our loud, but there is a semblance of authority in his voice that seems to attract others, male or female. An alpha male is filled with confidence about his looks though he may not be handsome and is confident about his intelligence though he may not be a Wharton graduate.
In the animal kingdom the alpha males are those who lead the pack with an aggressive behavior. The animals have their own social structure where the alpha or the dominant males get to mate with the females, with the principle that the alpha males will most probably produce better offsprings. Same goes for the alpha males in the society of humans.
Women describe alpha males as those with an innate superiority and who literally leads the pack. These are males who are aggressive and assertive despite their limitations.
To be able to understand an alpha male, one has to get to know his characteristics such as but not limited to being:
Born leaders
Alpha males are born to lead the pack. They are known to be the peacemakers and the ones responsible for stopping fights after and aggression usually started off by a bully. These men are usually dignified men who have leadership capabilities and they sometimes rule their world. An alpha male is a no nonsense leader who cannot be dictated upon and who stands by his principles.
Gandhi is an alpha male. He is a charismatic leader who refused to be pressured into giving up his cause. He was able to win his battle by espousing non-violence. Microsoft czar Bill Gates is an example of an alpha male who continues to change the world and its people. There are many alpha males in a variety of settings, all of whom have provided inspiration and great leadership to their sectors. Most alpha males are attracted and married to strong and outstanding women.
Confident
Alpha males are so sure of themselves but not to point of being cocky. They have high self esteem, believing that they have the power to do anything they want and to achieve their dreams. They know they have that special something within them but they do not boat nor talk about their strength.
Women are attracted to the alpha because of the confidence that emanates from them. This confidence manifests itself in the way he carries himself and the way he deals with others. This confidence is shown in the way he does things and treats other people. The alpha male's high self esteem makes him confident that he can get the best girl in town. The truth is, the girls usually flock around him.
Assertive
Being confident of himself and in what he can achieve, the alpha male is always assertive but not to the point of being pushy. He knows what he wants and how to get it. He asserts his rights and the rights of his friends. This may be the reason why alpha males are so popular with the pack. He leads them and gives them protection. Women love the alpha male for being assertive, of being able to know he can do it and doing something to achieve what he wants to do.
Born leaders, confident and assertive. These are the qualities that make women swoon over the alpha male. Need we say more?
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Choices
Word Count:
1022
Summary:
The power of personal choice.
Keywords:
choices,prosperity,health,co-creation
Article Body:
All that you create or do not create in your life- comes from choice. Embrace and understand the dynamics of this essential ingredient of power. You suffer when you dis-empower yourself by feeling that you are not in control of your destiny. Freedom lies in understanding that you choose everything! Even in "inaction" there is a choice. In reality there is no true inaction or stagnation.
You can justify your situation by proclaiming, "I have no choice" "I cannot do anything to change my circumstances" "there is nothing I can do" etc. That is a false belief. You can "choose" to allow the outer world to affect how you see your situation- yet; there is never a situation in which you do not have power and a choice.
With each choice, there is a consequence and an energetic price that must be paid. So, it is not that you do not have a choice- you are only choosing which energetic price you choose to pay.
If you are currently in a working situation in which you are unhappy, you can make several choices.
You can choose to stay because you are fearful of change, of the economy or whether or not you can find another means of income. The price you will pay for this choice is continued feelings of boredom, anger, hopelessness, lethargy and depression. Eventually this feeling will affect other areas of your life.
You can choose to stay- yet, change the energetic of how you see your situation. The simple act of using an empowering thought form can create a dramatic change in how you see your situation. "I will stay in this job because it is providing me with an income at this time. I will keep my eyes open for new opportunities and know that this is a temporary situation and I can choose again at any time".
You can choose to leave the job with the understanding that you are a creative being and can manifest a new source of income. From an outer view, this looks as if it is the most "expensive" choice in terms of energy. Yet, on another level it is not. What is required is a profound faith.
The first of these three examples is actually the most "expensive" for to continue to live under such circumstances will rob you of your life force. The most gentle of the three is the second option and the most daring and magical is the last.
The same wisdom applies to relationships (both platonic and romantic)
You can choose to stay in an unhappy, stagnant or abusive relationship. You can continue to complain about how miserable you are and how you cannot leave the relationship for various reasons. You can justify and make excuses for your circumstances- yet; all the while you will continue to live in anxiety and pain. You can choose to continually dream about what else may be out there for you- yet, never giving yourself an opportunity to explore the possibilities. The price for this choice is an un-calculatable amount.
You can choose to stay in the relationship with the affirmation of "I love this person and I choose to communicate my feelings with them to help bring about the needed changes. I will focus on the positive qualities and begin to let those be the guiding force. After a period of time, if I am still unhappy and see that the situation will not change, then I can choose again". By doing this, you empower yourself by knowing that you are staying because it is YOUR CHOICE- not because you have no other options.
You can choose to leave the relationship and understand that this choice may lead to some pain and loneliness for a short time. You may feel sadness and loss, yet with that will come an undeniable sense of freedom. The level of your anxiety, negative thoughts and feelings will diminish, making way for a higher vibration of life affirming energy. Your affirmation would be "I am choosing to leave this relationship/friendship because it is not contributing to my joy and ultimate happiness. I know it may be painful for a little while- yet, I also know there are billions of people on the planet and numerous opportunities to meet new friends and lovers."
When you use the words choose or choice in an affirmation, prayer or thought- the ears of the Angels perk up and they listen. The Universe begins to realign your world to meet that choice. There is so much magic in the understanding of this wisdom.
The same principle applies to what you view as "missing" in your life. You want to create a business, prosperity, a new job or a relationship yet you see that nothing is manifesting in your life. You can CHOOSE how you see your situation. You can make conscious choices as to how to get to the place you want to be. Statements like "I will never work for myself, I do not have the means to create my own business." "I will never find a good job", "I will never meet my soulmate/twinflame", "I will always be poor", "I will never get what I want" - all reinforce the CHOICE to create more of the same.
Choose creative and life affirming statements and thought forms and watch how your life is transformed. The Angels stand ready to assist you in your choices to create your desires.
I choose to take steps to immerse myself in the knowledge and learning I need to start my own business. I choose to put all my energy to creating what I want.
I choose to KNOW that there is a wonderful abundance of potential life partners and friends in the world for me. I choose to attract individuals who I will enjoy being with.
I choose to embrace HEALTH and vitality.
I choose to feel good.
I choose to allow prosperity to flow into my life.
I choose to allow my spiritual insight and faith to be my guiding force.
Paula Picard Psychic and Spiritual Teacher
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Summary:
The power of personal choice.
Keywords:
choices,prosperity,health,co-creation
Article Body:
All that you create or do not create in your life- comes from choice. Embrace and understand the dynamics of this essential ingredient of power. You suffer when you dis-empower yourself by feeling that you are not in control of your destiny. Freedom lies in understanding that you choose everything! Even in "inaction" there is a choice. In reality there is no true inaction or stagnation.
You can justify your situation by proclaiming, "I have no choice" "I cannot do anything to change my circumstances" "there is nothing I can do" etc. That is a false belief. You can "choose" to allow the outer world to affect how you see your situation- yet; there is never a situation in which you do not have power and a choice.
With each choice, there is a consequence and an energetic price that must be paid. So, it is not that you do not have a choice- you are only choosing which energetic price you choose to pay.
If you are currently in a working situation in which you are unhappy, you can make several choices.
You can choose to stay because you are fearful of change, of the economy or whether or not you can find another means of income. The price you will pay for this choice is continued feelings of boredom, anger, hopelessness, lethargy and depression. Eventually this feeling will affect other areas of your life.
You can choose to stay- yet, change the energetic of how you see your situation. The simple act of using an empowering thought form can create a dramatic change in how you see your situation. "I will stay in this job because it is providing me with an income at this time. I will keep my eyes open for new opportunities and know that this is a temporary situation and I can choose again at any time".
You can choose to leave the job with the understanding that you are a creative being and can manifest a new source of income. From an outer view, this looks as if it is the most "expensive" choice in terms of energy. Yet, on another level it is not. What is required is a profound faith.
The first of these three examples is actually the most "expensive" for to continue to live under such circumstances will rob you of your life force. The most gentle of the three is the second option and the most daring and magical is the last.
The same wisdom applies to relationships (both platonic and romantic)
You can choose to stay in an unhappy, stagnant or abusive relationship. You can continue to complain about how miserable you are and how you cannot leave the relationship for various reasons. You can justify and make excuses for your circumstances- yet; all the while you will continue to live in anxiety and pain. You can choose to continually dream about what else may be out there for you- yet, never giving yourself an opportunity to explore the possibilities. The price for this choice is an un-calculatable amount.
You can choose to stay in the relationship with the affirmation of "I love this person and I choose to communicate my feelings with them to help bring about the needed changes. I will focus on the positive qualities and begin to let those be the guiding force. After a period of time, if I am still unhappy and see that the situation will not change, then I can choose again". By doing this, you empower yourself by knowing that you are staying because it is YOUR CHOICE- not because you have no other options.
You can choose to leave the relationship and understand that this choice may lead to some pain and loneliness for a short time. You may feel sadness and loss, yet with that will come an undeniable sense of freedom. The level of your anxiety, negative thoughts and feelings will diminish, making way for a higher vibration of life affirming energy. Your affirmation would be "I am choosing to leave this relationship/friendship because it is not contributing to my joy and ultimate happiness. I know it may be painful for a little while- yet, I also know there are billions of people on the planet and numerous opportunities to meet new friends and lovers."
When you use the words choose or choice in an affirmation, prayer or thought- the ears of the Angels perk up and they listen. The Universe begins to realign your world to meet that choice. There is so much magic in the understanding of this wisdom.
The same principle applies to what you view as "missing" in your life. You want to create a business, prosperity, a new job or a relationship yet you see that nothing is manifesting in your life. You can CHOOSE how you see your situation. You can make conscious choices as to how to get to the place you want to be. Statements like "I will never work for myself, I do not have the means to create my own business." "I will never find a good job", "I will never meet my soulmate/twinflame", "I will always be poor", "I will never get what I want" - all reinforce the CHOICE to create more of the same.
Choose creative and life affirming statements and thought forms and watch how your life is transformed. The Angels stand ready to assist you in your choices to create your desires.
I choose to take steps to immerse myself in the knowledge and learning I need to start my own business. I choose to put all my energy to creating what I want.
I choose to KNOW that there is a wonderful abundance of potential life partners and friends in the world for me. I choose to attract individuals who I will enjoy being with.
I choose to embrace HEALTH and vitality.
I choose to feel good.
I choose to allow prosperity to flow into my life.
I choose to allow my spiritual insight and faith to be my guiding force.
Paula Picard Psychic and Spiritual Teacher
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Bring Love Into Your Life
Word Count:
1210
Summary:
Do you feel lonely, are you dreaming of the right one who will show up one day and end all the misery you’re going through now?
The bad news is this will not happen.
The good news is YOU can do a lot yourself to feel loved.
Keywords:
love, relationship, attraction, happiness, caring, energy, selflove
Article Body:
So many people are complaining about the lack of love in their life. They act as if some stranger decided one day to take away the love out of their lives. They hold on to lovers already gone since eternity, or they dream about a partner coming into their life to give them everything they are not able to give themselves. They balance between hope and desperation. They look for love outside themselves and believe one day a charming prince on a white horse will knock at the door and take them away to live for ever happy in a castle for away from reality.
Other people are trying to survive in a bad relationship that holds their greatness hostage. They live in fear and anger every day but don’t know how to get out of this prison.
Do you know such people? Does this sound like you? Do you feel lonely, are you dreaming of the right one who will show up one day and end all the misery you’re going through now?
The bad news is this will not happen.
The good news is YOU can do a lot yourself to feel loved.
Let me explain.
Life is like a building. There are a lot of floors : the ground floor, the cellar, the first floor, second floor and so on. The higher you go in the building, the more light there is, the easier and lighter things are, the more friendly and energetic people are, the higher are the vibrations and most of all : the more love there is.
Picture this building of life in your mental eye. In the cellar you will find people like rapers, thiefs, harassers, killers, people who beat their children or companion and others who made a life out of hurting others.
On the groundfloor you will find a lot of people. In fact most of humanity lives here. These are the ones who content themselves by vegetating instead of living. They don’t think by themselves, they undergo life. They do nothing. They live like robots. They go to their job every day, come home every day, watch the same television program every day with a beer in one hand and a hotdog in the other hand. They do not dream. They are stuck in their lifestyle and think everything will always be the same.
Then you go up. As I said, the higher you get, the easier, the lighter life is. Life IS easy, life IS light. The cellar, groundfloor and lower floors are creations from the human mind. We created these lifestyles by our heavy thoughts, thoughts about scarcity, fear, death, anger, sadness, revenge and so on. Here are the lives of those who choose to think low energy thoughts. Those who live in fear, hate, jealousy, doubts, low self esteem, troubles. Those have bad relationships, where struggle and anger and negativity set the tone. They are not happy. They maintain the illusion everything is someone else’s fault and they have either to wait for the other to change, so their life will change, or they have to destroy the other one to have a better life (think of the one who kills the husband of the woman he wants to live with, or those who kill other minded people in order to be free to live like they want). This will never give freedom or love.
So what to do if you want to move up in that building of life and live free and in love?
First you have to make a decision. Yes, you have to decide WHERE you want to be. On which floor do you want to live your life now?
Is it the cellar? No, I don’t think so. Is is the groundfloor? I don’t think it either. Let’s say you want to be at the 17th floor. But you feel you are at this moment in your life at the 3rd floor only. You hate your job, you have a lousy relationship with your partner, you’re in bad shape and your energy is low.
So you decided you wanted a life in the vibration of the 17th floor, where there is love, real friendship, positive expectations, inner strength, power, a job you like, health and wealth.
What to do? You decided where you want to be. What you will do now? Should you wait until someone will knock on your door to take you there? No way! Will never happen! Even if you would meet someone with an energy level of 17, he will never carry you from the 3rd to the 17th floor, because he will be exhausted. It needs to be YOUR decision and YOUR action!!
So YOU have to move yourself up. How? Read! Read more! Read how you can create your life by changing your thoughts and your behavior! Go to workshops where you can learn how to unleash you inner power. Use the wonderful information bank which is called Internet and which offers you a bunch of positive information and e-courses (often for free). Surround you with loving people. Learn how to love yourself.
So first you decide where you want to be. Than you do whatever you can to get there, on your own. You may ask help of course, you may find yourself a coach (which is really a good decision!) but don’t look for somebody to carry you. You will fall down immediately the moment he puts you down. If you didn’t get there by yourself, it won’t last, it is not worth anything because you moved yourself up with somebody else’s energy and you are depending on his energy.
Once you get at the floor of your choice, let’s say 17, you will meet automatically people who vibrate at this level of energy. Energy-17 people. Loving, caring, wonderful people. People who feel good about themselves and who don’t need others to steal their energy. They learned how to generate energy by themselves. They are not slaves. They are not dominators. They love and respect others.
Do you want to meet someone like that? Do you want to share your life with somebody who has a 17-energy (or more)? Go there! Go at their level and you will meet them, that’s a guarantee!
Move yourself up.
If you live in a bad relationship right now, and you do whatever you can to get yourself moving higher, you will see what will happen. Your partner, who is still vibrating on energy 3 or 2 or on cellar-level won’t be able to follow you and you will take separate roads.
Don’t make the mistake of trying to pull someone up who wants to stay at his low level. You will never succeed. Especially women should be aware of this : don’t spoil your energy at trying to get others moving up with you. It’s a waste of time. Everybody should decide for himself. Don’t carry others on your back, you will crack down! Decide for yourself, go for it, and see what happens. The higher you get in energy-levels, the better it will be. There you will agree with me : life is wonderful!
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1210
Summary:
Do you feel lonely, are you dreaming of the right one who will show up one day and end all the misery you’re going through now?
The bad news is this will not happen.
The good news is YOU can do a lot yourself to feel loved.
Keywords:
love, relationship, attraction, happiness, caring, energy, selflove
Article Body:
So many people are complaining about the lack of love in their life. They act as if some stranger decided one day to take away the love out of their lives. They hold on to lovers already gone since eternity, or they dream about a partner coming into their life to give them everything they are not able to give themselves. They balance between hope and desperation. They look for love outside themselves and believe one day a charming prince on a white horse will knock at the door and take them away to live for ever happy in a castle for away from reality.
Other people are trying to survive in a bad relationship that holds their greatness hostage. They live in fear and anger every day but don’t know how to get out of this prison.
Do you know such people? Does this sound like you? Do you feel lonely, are you dreaming of the right one who will show up one day and end all the misery you’re going through now?
The bad news is this will not happen.
The good news is YOU can do a lot yourself to feel loved.
Let me explain.
Life is like a building. There are a lot of floors : the ground floor, the cellar, the first floor, second floor and so on. The higher you go in the building, the more light there is, the easier and lighter things are, the more friendly and energetic people are, the higher are the vibrations and most of all : the more love there is.
Picture this building of life in your mental eye. In the cellar you will find people like rapers, thiefs, harassers, killers, people who beat their children or companion and others who made a life out of hurting others.
On the groundfloor you will find a lot of people. In fact most of humanity lives here. These are the ones who content themselves by vegetating instead of living. They don’t think by themselves, they undergo life. They do nothing. They live like robots. They go to their job every day, come home every day, watch the same television program every day with a beer in one hand and a hotdog in the other hand. They do not dream. They are stuck in their lifestyle and think everything will always be the same.
Then you go up. As I said, the higher you get, the easier, the lighter life is. Life IS easy, life IS light. The cellar, groundfloor and lower floors are creations from the human mind. We created these lifestyles by our heavy thoughts, thoughts about scarcity, fear, death, anger, sadness, revenge and so on. Here are the lives of those who choose to think low energy thoughts. Those who live in fear, hate, jealousy, doubts, low self esteem, troubles. Those have bad relationships, where struggle and anger and negativity set the tone. They are not happy. They maintain the illusion everything is someone else’s fault and they have either to wait for the other to change, so their life will change, or they have to destroy the other one to have a better life (think of the one who kills the husband of the woman he wants to live with, or those who kill other minded people in order to be free to live like they want). This will never give freedom or love.
So what to do if you want to move up in that building of life and live free and in love?
First you have to make a decision. Yes, you have to decide WHERE you want to be. On which floor do you want to live your life now?
Is it the cellar? No, I don’t think so. Is is the groundfloor? I don’t think it either. Let’s say you want to be at the 17th floor. But you feel you are at this moment in your life at the 3rd floor only. You hate your job, you have a lousy relationship with your partner, you’re in bad shape and your energy is low.
So you decided you wanted a life in the vibration of the 17th floor, where there is love, real friendship, positive expectations, inner strength, power, a job you like, health and wealth.
What to do? You decided where you want to be. What you will do now? Should you wait until someone will knock on your door to take you there? No way! Will never happen! Even if you would meet someone with an energy level of 17, he will never carry you from the 3rd to the 17th floor, because he will be exhausted. It needs to be YOUR decision and YOUR action!!
So YOU have to move yourself up. How? Read! Read more! Read how you can create your life by changing your thoughts and your behavior! Go to workshops where you can learn how to unleash you inner power. Use the wonderful information bank which is called Internet and which offers you a bunch of positive information and e-courses (often for free). Surround you with loving people. Learn how to love yourself.
So first you decide where you want to be. Than you do whatever you can to get there, on your own. You may ask help of course, you may find yourself a coach (which is really a good decision!) but don’t look for somebody to carry you. You will fall down immediately the moment he puts you down. If you didn’t get there by yourself, it won’t last, it is not worth anything because you moved yourself up with somebody else’s energy and you are depending on his energy.
Once you get at the floor of your choice, let’s say 17, you will meet automatically people who vibrate at this level of energy. Energy-17 people. Loving, caring, wonderful people. People who feel good about themselves and who don’t need others to steal their energy. They learned how to generate energy by themselves. They are not slaves. They are not dominators. They love and respect others.
Do you want to meet someone like that? Do you want to share your life with somebody who has a 17-energy (or more)? Go there! Go at their level and you will meet them, that’s a guarantee!
Move yourself up.
If you live in a bad relationship right now, and you do whatever you can to get yourself moving higher, you will see what will happen. Your partner, who is still vibrating on energy 3 or 2 or on cellar-level won’t be able to follow you and you will take separate roads.
Don’t make the mistake of trying to pull someone up who wants to stay at his low level. You will never succeed. Especially women should be aware of this : don’t spoil your energy at trying to get others moving up with you. It’s a waste of time. Everybody should decide for himself. Don’t carry others on your back, you will crack down! Decide for yourself, go for it, and see what happens. The higher you get in energy-levels, the better it will be. There you will agree with me : life is wonderful!
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Wednesday, May 26, 2010
An Example Of Allowing A Desire To Arrive On Its Own
Word Count:
727
Summary:
Allowing is truly letting the Law of Attraction bring your desire into your sphere in its own time, place and manner.
Keywords:
law of attraction, deliberate, desire, attract, vibration
Article Body:
I don't know why, but it seems we trip over the "allowing" part of the Deliberate Attraction formula more often than the other two parts. The Deliberate Attraction formula gives us a simple description of how to leverage the Law of Attraction so we can attract more of what we DO want and enjoy. The three steps are simply:
1) Become very clear about what you DO want.
2) Raise your internal vibration, through removing doubts and fears, so you are a vibrational match for your desire.
3) Allow your desire to come to you.
Much has been written already about the first two steps. You'll find lots of personal stories and succinct teaching in my articles at YouCanHaveItAll.com. But how do we "allow"--what do we need to do to actually receive what we so clearly desire, yet do not have?
Recently, I had a nice experience of what it feels like to "allow." I've been noticing that my office wastebasket is inadequately spilling over too often. It is just a little eight-inch sea-grass basket and it hardly holds two days worth of opened envelopes and crumpled paper. After months of mentally complaining about its lack of capacity, I finally asked myself, "So, what kind of wastebasket would I like?"
I began to imagine a sleek, black, matte finish wastebasket--about 15 inches high with a 12 inch diameter top, and tapered at the bottom. Yes, that would be adequate for a week's worth of trash from my office and it would look professional alongside my other black office accessories.
Next I collected data on possible wastebaskets. For about a week, every time I entered a building that might have my ideal wastebasket, I looked for it. I found step-on aluminum cans--no, I don't want to step on anything. I found black plastic trash bins with swivel lids--no, I don't want a swivel lid--I want an open receptacle so I can toss paper into it. I found black trash cans on wheels--too industrial looking. I found ceramic pots that were almost right--too heavy to empty out. I was noticing the price range went from $18.99 to $49.99.
Finally, I let it go. I told myself, "The right one will show up." And it did.
I was at the Hudson Bay Store, here in Victoria, BC, making a purchase when I decided to cash-in some of my "Reward Points" for a gift certificate. I had NEVER thought about cashing-in Reward Points before--it had never occurred to me to do so. I took the elevator to the fifth floor and while a delightful young lady at the Reward Counter prepared my gift certificate, my eye scanned across the isle. There I noticed A BLACK WASTEBASKET--just the size and shape I had pictured in my imagination. With gift card in hand, I swiftly crossed the isle and lifted the basket. "Ah, it is made of felt-board--very lightweight. Matte black finish with nail-head trim. About 14 inches high and 12 inches in diameter--tapered at the bottom. Very professional looking." I turned the basket upside-down to read the price: "$16.99." Very good! With my gift certificate in hand I proceeded to the checkout stand. When the clerk scanned the price, she gasped and asked me, "How much do you think this costs?"
"Well, the sticker says '$16.99'."
She was shaking her head in disbelief as she replied, "It's on sale for $5.00."
"Five dollars?" I asked, in complete surprise.
"Five dollars," she repeated.
"I'll pay cash and save my gift certificate!"
Can you imagine the joy I felt at that moment? Not only was the price right, but the manner in which my exact desire had come to me was absolutely delicious!
"Allowing" is simply the old adage: "Let go, and let God." It's "Detachment from the outcome." More like "Detachment from forcing something to happen."
Allowing is truly letting the Law of Attraction bring your desire into your sphere in its own time, place and manner. Allowing doesn't mean getting second best--it means allowing the Law of Attraction to bring your exact desire--in the BEST way possible.
Is there something you are not allowing through trying to make it happen or by wanting it a certain way or at a certain time? Let it go. Believe that the Law of Attraction WILL bring it to you in the perfect time and the perfect way. Believe it because that IS the law.
727
Summary:
Allowing is truly letting the Law of Attraction bring your desire into your sphere in its own time, place and manner.
Keywords:
law of attraction, deliberate, desire, attract, vibration
Article Body:
I don't know why, but it seems we trip over the "allowing" part of the Deliberate Attraction formula more often than the other two parts. The Deliberate Attraction formula gives us a simple description of how to leverage the Law of Attraction so we can attract more of what we DO want and enjoy. The three steps are simply:
1) Become very clear about what you DO want.
2) Raise your internal vibration, through removing doubts and fears, so you are a vibrational match for your desire.
3) Allow your desire to come to you.
Much has been written already about the first two steps. You'll find lots of personal stories and succinct teaching in my articles at YouCanHaveItAll.com. But how do we "allow"--what do we need to do to actually receive what we so clearly desire, yet do not have?
Recently, I had a nice experience of what it feels like to "allow." I've been noticing that my office wastebasket is inadequately spilling over too often. It is just a little eight-inch sea-grass basket and it hardly holds two days worth of opened envelopes and crumpled paper. After months of mentally complaining about its lack of capacity, I finally asked myself, "So, what kind of wastebasket would I like?"
I began to imagine a sleek, black, matte finish wastebasket--about 15 inches high with a 12 inch diameter top, and tapered at the bottom. Yes, that would be adequate for a week's worth of trash from my office and it would look professional alongside my other black office accessories.
Next I collected data on possible wastebaskets. For about a week, every time I entered a building that might have my ideal wastebasket, I looked for it. I found step-on aluminum cans--no, I don't want to step on anything. I found black plastic trash bins with swivel lids--no, I don't want a swivel lid--I want an open receptacle so I can toss paper into it. I found black trash cans on wheels--too industrial looking. I found ceramic pots that were almost right--too heavy to empty out. I was noticing the price range went from $18.99 to $49.99.
Finally, I let it go. I told myself, "The right one will show up." And it did.
I was at the Hudson Bay Store, here in Victoria, BC, making a purchase when I decided to cash-in some of my "Reward Points" for a gift certificate. I had NEVER thought about cashing-in Reward Points before--it had never occurred to me to do so. I took the elevator to the fifth floor and while a delightful young lady at the Reward Counter prepared my gift certificate, my eye scanned across the isle. There I noticed A BLACK WASTEBASKET--just the size and shape I had pictured in my imagination. With gift card in hand, I swiftly crossed the isle and lifted the basket. "Ah, it is made of felt-board--very lightweight. Matte black finish with nail-head trim. About 14 inches high and 12 inches in diameter--tapered at the bottom. Very professional looking." I turned the basket upside-down to read the price: "$16.99." Very good! With my gift certificate in hand I proceeded to the checkout stand. When the clerk scanned the price, she gasped and asked me, "How much do you think this costs?"
"Well, the sticker says '$16.99'."
She was shaking her head in disbelief as she replied, "It's on sale for $5.00."
"Five dollars?" I asked, in complete surprise.
"Five dollars," she repeated.
"I'll pay cash and save my gift certificate!"
Can you imagine the joy I felt at that moment? Not only was the price right, but the manner in which my exact desire had come to me was absolutely delicious!
"Allowing" is simply the old adage: "Let go, and let God." It's "Detachment from the outcome." More like "Detachment from forcing something to happen."
Allowing is truly letting the Law of Attraction bring your desire into your sphere in its own time, place and manner. Allowing doesn't mean getting second best--it means allowing the Law of Attraction to bring your exact desire--in the BEST way possible.
Is there something you are not allowing through trying to make it happen or by wanting it a certain way or at a certain time? Let it go. Believe that the Law of Attraction WILL bring it to you in the perfect time and the perfect way. Believe it because that IS the law.
7 Spells To Unstoppable Magnetic Attraction
Word Count:
589
Summary:
Beauty holds a golden mirror to the shimmering inner essence. It reflects true self-perception as well as the extent of one's discipline.
Attractiveness indicates a sensitivity to those around us. Just as we shine our shoes, wash our cars or trim our lawns to provide “eye-candy” to passers-by, we keep our bodies in the pink of health to offer delightful icons worthy of emulation.
I believe that beauty is not trivial; it is core to civilized society. Imagine everyone aba...
Keywords:
attraction, beauty, attract girls, attract boys, how to attract girls, how to attract women, how to attract men, beauty tips, attraction techniques, magnetic attraction, being sexy, sexiness
Article Body:
Beauty holds a golden mirror to the shimmering inner essence. It reflects true self-perception as well as the extent of one's discipline.
Attractiveness indicates a sensitivity to those around us. Just as we shine our shoes, wash our cars or trim our lawns to provide “eye-candy” to passers-by, we keep our bodies in the pink of health to offer delightful icons worthy of emulation.
I believe that beauty is not trivial; it is core to civilized society. Imagine everyone abandoning restraint and shuffling around in tattered clothes, drooping bellies, dishevelled hair, blackened fingernails and breath so foul only a mother could love? No one would be happy- except the mouthwash manufacturers. Those who shun beauty as superficial are probably too lazy to reach for a bar of soap or the jump rope.
But, beautiful people are not necessarily supermodels with Greek-god faces and unreal proportions. That is a myth promulgated by sneaky salesmen of snakeoil creams and dangerous bust implants. Let them slather that muck on their faces 24/7. Then, I’d believe them.
Beautiful people are Normal people who watch their diet, keep their bodies clean, and don tasteful, yet inexpensive clothing. They maintain an empowered lifestyle, indulge in mind-expanding books and engage in varied activity that enriches their awareness.
Beauty, more importantly, is internal. The attractive assert their opinions and fight for convictions. Whether handsome or pretty, bland or plain, the internally beautiful betray an intelligence and burning diligence that reflects their personality. Recall that personality is molded by how we carry ourselves and associate with the world at large.
Finally, beauty is holistic. Magnetic people take effort to be the best that they can be. They understand that they are fusions of body, soul and spirit. Hence, they build up each facet by honing their talents and passions. They may have ordinary faces but lead extraordinary lives. These exceptional people are the best humanity can offer; they easily outshine the empty-headed Greek Models of the catwalk.
Augmenting beauty simply means caring of the body and the mind. It doesn’t take much effort, just a tad of self regulation. Here’s how to ooze magnetic attraction:
1. Books and periodicals are your best friend. Beef up what’s in your head and rack up more beauty points with your enlightened discussions. Intelligence is attractive.
2. Watch stand-up comedy. You will develop your sense of humour. Wit is a rare and valued commodity.
3. Is that a burger you’re shovelling down your throat? Stop. You are literally what you eat. Want to be a lard bucket? Then chomp that burger.
4. Soap, shampoo and mouthwash are better than all the pheromone sprays, libido enhancers and failed nose lifts. Good hygiene is the honey that attracts the delightful bees.
5. Dress to impress- 24/7. You probably had one of those moments. There you were, in sloppy coveralls at the mall. Then you run into the boss or a beautiful stranger. Say this with me: “NEVER AGAIN.” One more time. “NEVER AGAIN.”
6. Ask and Listen. The most dazzling conversationalists avoid monopolizing conversations. Rather, they ask tons of questions…. And listen for hours on end. Stop and think about that. Isn’t your best friend a great listener?
7. Finally, think sexy. Feel sexy. You are what you think you are. Your body follows what the mind dictates. The $3000 executive coaches like to pass this astounding piece of common sense for a hefty fee. Save the money.
So, get out there and glow. You can be attractive without those creams, lotions and surgeons.
Be bold. Choose beauty.
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Summary:
Beauty holds a golden mirror to the shimmering inner essence. It reflects true self-perception as well as the extent of one's discipline.
Attractiveness indicates a sensitivity to those around us. Just as we shine our shoes, wash our cars or trim our lawns to provide “eye-candy” to passers-by, we keep our bodies in the pink of health to offer delightful icons worthy of emulation.
I believe that beauty is not trivial; it is core to civilized society. Imagine everyone aba...
Keywords:
attraction, beauty, attract girls, attract boys, how to attract girls, how to attract women, how to attract men, beauty tips, attraction techniques, magnetic attraction, being sexy, sexiness
Article Body:
Beauty holds a golden mirror to the shimmering inner essence. It reflects true self-perception as well as the extent of one's discipline.
Attractiveness indicates a sensitivity to those around us. Just as we shine our shoes, wash our cars or trim our lawns to provide “eye-candy” to passers-by, we keep our bodies in the pink of health to offer delightful icons worthy of emulation.
I believe that beauty is not trivial; it is core to civilized society. Imagine everyone abandoning restraint and shuffling around in tattered clothes, drooping bellies, dishevelled hair, blackened fingernails and breath so foul only a mother could love? No one would be happy- except the mouthwash manufacturers. Those who shun beauty as superficial are probably too lazy to reach for a bar of soap or the jump rope.
But, beautiful people are not necessarily supermodels with Greek-god faces and unreal proportions. That is a myth promulgated by sneaky salesmen of snakeoil creams and dangerous bust implants. Let them slather that muck on their faces 24/7. Then, I’d believe them.
Beautiful people are Normal people who watch their diet, keep their bodies clean, and don tasteful, yet inexpensive clothing. They maintain an empowered lifestyle, indulge in mind-expanding books and engage in varied activity that enriches their awareness.
Beauty, more importantly, is internal. The attractive assert their opinions and fight for convictions. Whether handsome or pretty, bland or plain, the internally beautiful betray an intelligence and burning diligence that reflects their personality. Recall that personality is molded by how we carry ourselves and associate with the world at large.
Finally, beauty is holistic. Magnetic people take effort to be the best that they can be. They understand that they are fusions of body, soul and spirit. Hence, they build up each facet by honing their talents and passions. They may have ordinary faces but lead extraordinary lives. These exceptional people are the best humanity can offer; they easily outshine the empty-headed Greek Models of the catwalk.
Augmenting beauty simply means caring of the body and the mind. It doesn’t take much effort, just a tad of self regulation. Here’s how to ooze magnetic attraction:
1. Books and periodicals are your best friend. Beef up what’s in your head and rack up more beauty points with your enlightened discussions. Intelligence is attractive.
2. Watch stand-up comedy. You will develop your sense of humour. Wit is a rare and valued commodity.
3. Is that a burger you’re shovelling down your throat? Stop. You are literally what you eat. Want to be a lard bucket? Then chomp that burger.
4. Soap, shampoo and mouthwash are better than all the pheromone sprays, libido enhancers and failed nose lifts. Good hygiene is the honey that attracts the delightful bees.
5. Dress to impress- 24/7. You probably had one of those moments. There you were, in sloppy coveralls at the mall. Then you run into the boss or a beautiful stranger. Say this with me: “NEVER AGAIN.” One more time. “NEVER AGAIN.”
6. Ask and Listen. The most dazzling conversationalists avoid monopolizing conversations. Rather, they ask tons of questions…. And listen for hours on end. Stop and think about that. Isn’t your best friend a great listener?
7. Finally, think sexy. Feel sexy. You are what you think you are. Your body follows what the mind dictates. The $3000 executive coaches like to pass this astounding piece of common sense for a hefty fee. Save the money.
So, get out there and glow. You can be attractive without those creams, lotions and surgeons.
Be bold. Choose beauty.
5 Dazzling Ways to Make Any Woman Fall In Love With You
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549
Summary:
The avenue to Romance is littered with roadkill hearts and unrequited love.If you think you're unique in your loneliness, think again. There is enough dashboard pounding out there to start a global orchestra of dire distress. But don't despair. Before you spin out of control, deploy the airbags fast. These strategic maneuvers should cruise you back on track:
Keywords:
attract women, attract girls, enhance relationships, build rapport, create attraction, create rapport, love techniques, sex techniques, fall in love,body language
Article Body:
"I don't get it!..."
"I've a nice car. I'm accomplished. My A-List CV make the next guy look funky. I even
wear the latest Armani! Why doesn't she flip for me? Why am I always alone??"
STOP!
How many times did you pound the dashboard of your Corvette bewailing this persistent question?
The avenue to Romance is littered with roadkill hearts and unrequited love.If you think you're unique in your loneliness, think again. There is enough dashboard pounding out there to start a global orchestra of dire distress.
But don't despair. Before you spin out of control, deploy the airbags fast. These strategic maneuvers should cruise you back on track:
1) Dress to Kill - all the time: No I don't intend that You wear that $5000 suit to the grocers or the Rolex to walk the dog. What I want you to do is is to dress decently each time you hit the streets. Dab on some cologne. Be neatly shaven. Men, women are everywhere. If you dress with flash only at the bar or the party, you're missing out on 95% of eligible women. Some of the best relationships were forged during chance encounters at the bus stop.
2) Bedroom Eyes - When exploring new relationships with that sexy stranger, intensify the eye contact. Lock deep into her pupils. Let the rest of the world disappear even as a horde of supermodels troop by. You will naturally thrill her with the attention as she experiences the tendrils of growing attraction. Ethnologists have a term for it, the copulatory gaze. Get your eyes even sexier by enlargening your pupils. Dr. Hess concluded that dilated pupils are far far more attractive to women after he presented hundreds of assorted pictures of men to test subjects. How does one get the pupils popping? Simply gaze at the most alluring parts of her face and fill your mind with loving caring thoughts. Your pupils naturally grow, endowing you with irresistible eyes.
3) Visual Caress - Get your eyes do some facial travelling as you chat. Linger a bit on the nose, traipse across the eyes and rest at the lips. Drink in her facial features as though you were admiring the Mona Lisa. She will delight in the attention!
4) Easter Eggs - Stumped at having nothing to say? Listen carefully for easter eggs as you talk. These are unusual words of phrases that she utters. Ask her to expound on it. Say "What's the story behind that?" or "How do you feel about that?". Women love to be probed for their opinions and their feelings.Gently bring out her emotions with sensitive open-ended questions.
5) Keep it Adrenaline Charged - Men talk facts: stock figures, bill payments, and boring engine specs. Women are different. They delight in FEELINGS TALK: how the new dress takes them to 7th heaven, how that special meal got them all giddy with ecstasy, how their shopping expedition drains their deepest problems away. Leverage this by steering away from facts talk. Pick out emotionally charged subjects and ask her how she especially relates to them. You'll be her new confidant!
I know what you're thinking. It's all common sense! That's true, but ask yourself this: how many of you actually practice this? Be honest.
Get out there and be the man women loves. Use your common sense!
549
Summary:
The avenue to Romance is littered with roadkill hearts and unrequited love.If you think you're unique in your loneliness, think again. There is enough dashboard pounding out there to start a global orchestra of dire distress. But don't despair. Before you spin out of control, deploy the airbags fast. These strategic maneuvers should cruise you back on track:
Keywords:
attract women, attract girls, enhance relationships, build rapport, create attraction, create rapport, love techniques, sex techniques, fall in love,body language
Article Body:
"I don't get it!..."
"I've a nice car. I'm accomplished. My A-List CV make the next guy look funky. I even
wear the latest Armani! Why doesn't she flip for me? Why am I always alone??"
STOP!
How many times did you pound the dashboard of your Corvette bewailing this persistent question?
The avenue to Romance is littered with roadkill hearts and unrequited love.If you think you're unique in your loneliness, think again. There is enough dashboard pounding out there to start a global orchestra of dire distress.
But don't despair. Before you spin out of control, deploy the airbags fast. These strategic maneuvers should cruise you back on track:
1) Dress to Kill - all the time: No I don't intend that You wear that $5000 suit to the grocers or the Rolex to walk the dog. What I want you to do is is to dress decently each time you hit the streets. Dab on some cologne. Be neatly shaven. Men, women are everywhere. If you dress with flash only at the bar or the party, you're missing out on 95% of eligible women. Some of the best relationships were forged during chance encounters at the bus stop.
2) Bedroom Eyes - When exploring new relationships with that sexy stranger, intensify the eye contact. Lock deep into her pupils. Let the rest of the world disappear even as a horde of supermodels troop by. You will naturally thrill her with the attention as she experiences the tendrils of growing attraction. Ethnologists have a term for it, the copulatory gaze. Get your eyes even sexier by enlargening your pupils. Dr. Hess concluded that dilated pupils are far far more attractive to women after he presented hundreds of assorted pictures of men to test subjects. How does one get the pupils popping? Simply gaze at the most alluring parts of her face and fill your mind with loving caring thoughts. Your pupils naturally grow, endowing you with irresistible eyes.
3) Visual Caress - Get your eyes do some facial travelling as you chat. Linger a bit on the nose, traipse across the eyes and rest at the lips. Drink in her facial features as though you were admiring the Mona Lisa. She will delight in the attention!
4) Easter Eggs - Stumped at having nothing to say? Listen carefully for easter eggs as you talk. These are unusual words of phrases that she utters. Ask her to expound on it. Say "What's the story behind that?" or "How do you feel about that?". Women love to be probed for their opinions and their feelings.Gently bring out her emotions with sensitive open-ended questions.
5) Keep it Adrenaline Charged - Men talk facts: stock figures, bill payments, and boring engine specs. Women are different. They delight in FEELINGS TALK: how the new dress takes them to 7th heaven, how that special meal got them all giddy with ecstasy, how their shopping expedition drains their deepest problems away. Leverage this by steering away from facts talk. Pick out emotionally charged subjects and ask her how she especially relates to them. You'll be her new confidant!
I know what you're thinking. It's all common sense! That's true, but ask yourself this: how many of you actually practice this? Be honest.
Get out there and be the man women loves. Use your common sense!
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